I spent most of last several years in Latin America where I was involved in non profit/health care work. I am active (hiking, surfing, biking, soccer, lifting weights) and I love books and rootsy music (rock, reggae, bluegrass, world/latin, indie). I play music (guitar, bass, ukulele) for fun; I played in bands for years and got most of the wildness out of my system.
Via the influence of my European parents I grew up cooking, gardening, and tinkering around with carpentry. My background limited my exposure to American culture - minimal malls, microwaves, or conversations about celebrities.
I have ambition though its mostly focused on developing depth in relationships, skills, and experiences.
I'm from DC, I love east coasters - I enjoy dark humor. I am affectionate & loyal, I don’t flirt. If I am with you, you have my undivided attention. I'm ready/happy to give that to someone long term/permanently.
My gal shares at least some of my interests, pluses include: east or west coaster or foreigner, (healthy) curves, a curious mind, and if you play an instrument or sing then I love you already.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in health care where I help patients reverse chronic disease and obesity. I'm looking into returning to Central America for more long term projects.
I’m really good at
Being a friend, an uncle, a brother, a son and making homemade
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My taste in music is similar to my taste in food - minimal
processing, some recent favorites are Amy Winehouse, Wilco, and
Manu Chao. I love reading, Jared Diamond, Steven Ambrose, Tim
Robbins, I.B. Singer, Kurt Vonnegut, Edgar Allen Poe, NYT, Malcom
Gladwell, Andrew Weil, Paul Farmer, & plenty more
health/science titles. I'm not big on TV but I love Louis C.K., and
Movies: The Way, Way Back, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,
Once, American Werewolf in London, Rushmore, Up in the Air,
Spaghetti Westerns, any Woody Allen, Wes Anderson, or Almodóvar
film, The Science of Sleep and Y Tu Mama Tambien. Spanish language
movies are a fav & I often watch American movies dubbed in
Spanish. The Spanish voice over actors are fantastic.
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, music/musical instruments, books, community and I
am here to find the sixth:)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Alternative answers to OKC's endless questions, when I edit them
next time I am going to be a devout Mormon who is into sex toys and
flag burning but is oddly also a virgin who is against gay marriage
and has lots of guns and cats.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a lightweight. If I drink more than two beers my cheeks get
red, I'm everyone's best friend, and I laugh at everything, maybe
even your cliche Burning Man story:)
You should message me if
You can picture long term chemistry or alternatively, you are into
playing music or surfing - I am always up for meeting new strumming
and surfing buddies.