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31 Boulder, CO Genderqueer, Transgender

Genderqueer, Transgender

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Feb 15
Queer, Pansexual
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've been on and off this site for awhile, made some really good friends through it, got stalked by eventual lovers through it. Hey, I guess it's ok. If you meet me in real life you should come stalk me here, and know what you are getting into :D

To clarify, I am gender queer. My pro-noun is "he," it used to be "they," but I got tired of having the grammar conversation with everyone I meet, and "he" fits more than "she" so..... I am gay at times, bi at times, and pan at times, but really I'm more of a clown then anything else. Yeah, my gender is clown. If you are clown phobic, it's not going to work out....;P

I am an extremely artistic and playful person so much so that creation and play is kind of my religion. So I am looking for folks in this area, that also do things like get up at four in the morning to film the blood moon eclipse...

Oh yeah I'm also polyamorous, and a proud witch.
What I’m doing with my life
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herbalism, wild foraging, and planting back........

teaching Cinematography

Filmmaking, I do experimental docs, films, performance, puppet shows, etc...

queer magic.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, photography, dream stuff, hypnosis, creating something cool with limited materials, reading tarot, ritual, organizing events, auctioneering, painting, drawing, listening, laughter, massage.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm short?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Latest books: Psychomagic by Jodorsky, Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy. Also my favorite fantasy book of all time is The Neverending Story.

Movies: This is a hard one because studying and working in film has made it difficult for me to enjoy most of them. This is because I'm all too aware of the multi levels of discrimination within the industry. This doesn't mean I cant have fun watching something completely mind-numbing sometimes, but I do have less patience for brain wash.

I mostly like documentary, foreign, and art films, the ones that most people think are weird or boring. Oh, and Queer International Cinema! Some of my favorite movies are: Cave of Forgotten Dreams, The Shadow of our Forgotten Ancestors, Kush, Harold and Maude, anything Kurosawa, Fantastic Planet, Microcosmos, HolyMountain, Eraserhead, Baraka. I'm a big fan of Mya Deren, Nina Paley, Joseph Cornell, Ron Rice, Chick Strand, Jodie Mac, to name a few.

My musical tastes are kind of all over the place. I like soul, folk, funk, conscious hiphop, noise, drone/ambient, world, jazz, psytrance....I love the Cocteau Twins, Alexai and Naima, Coco Rosie, Biosphere, Coil, Psycovsky, Steve Roach, Tin Hat Trio, Alice Coltrane, AliFarke Toure, Fever Ray, Androcell, Kaya Project, Dead Can Dance, Ajja, Bjork, Erykah Badu, Goa Gil, Hu Huun Tu.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It's really mostly about good friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My thesis film....Life in other areas of the world, where I want to travel next, if thats even ethical at all, how far could I go in trying to wean myself off civilization, or mostly just oil dependence, my next step in my creative endeavors, environmental, cultural, and societal issues, transcending gender, personal transformation, new and creative ways to heal ourselves and the planet, yup.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Vegging out? A performance of some kind? dancing? night hikes?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to live in a short bus.
You should message me if
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You are a feral humanoid that seeks the companionship of another feral humanoid in the midst of not feral at all humanoids, what brings you here?
You are really, really, really, into taking good care of yourself.
You've done some exploration in NVC, listening, empathy and compassion.
You've done some exploration in anti oppression work involving, unpacking privilege and entitlement/ striving to live in right relation to life on this planet.
You've have fun instruments, and or you like to sing, and you want to make weird music with me.
You own a loom and want to teach me weaving skills.
You want to knit me a scarf or want me to knit you a scarf.
You are an activist/artist of another kind.