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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45-100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
White, Other
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm a spiritual adventurer with lots of in-body experiences. I'm self-employed in 3 careers that balance me out, spiritually, physically, and mentally. I like to be creative ... write poetry, make collages, garden, design special events.

I'd like to meet a somewhat quirky yet sane, kind and strong, and funny man to be my companion and lover for a dance of life and travel to amazing places. I had that kind of man recently and only lost it to his early death. Ideally, our relationship would be committed to each other yet open to select others. Yeah! I'm like that!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking a break from work right now ... open to opportunities for spiritual and personal growth and earning some cash doing bodywork and conducting weddings. For pleasure, I do Biodanza, Soul Motion dancing, dance jams, want to learn salsa ... also love visiting Harbin Hot Springs, going to satsangs, and participating in Tantric pujas.
I just returned from a trip to Europe and Morocco May-June where I swam in the Mediterranean and attended the World Festival of Sacred Music in Fes also spelled Fez Morocco.
I have a wonderful man in my life since June 2013. He could be husband #2 and I'm still looking for husband #1 and #3.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, making a fool of myself, dancing with no steps to learn, laughing out loud for no reason, hanging out in warm pools for hours, rocking, shaking, and nurturing your body using the Trager approach, walking through the Mountain Cemetery, planning trips, organizing parties, cooking healthy meals, keeping friends, writing poetry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my calm presence
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Maybe too many to list ... any book written by Richard Rohr, Julia Cameron, Starhawk. Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein. Now reading Slow Sex by Nicole Daedone.

In terms of film, I really laughed at Compassionate Sex, was mesmerized by both Siddhartha and Brother Sun, Sister Moon, and really appreciated the depth and compassion of The Sessions, that came out 2 or 3 years ago.

Music - I like most genres, including world music, jazz, blues, folk, rock, gospel, latin, Sufi, as well as some classical and country western. I listen to Leonard Cohen, esp. Dance Me to the End of Love.
I love live music! And especially dance music, such as rock, zydeco, and Latin.

Food, well ... I love to eat and yet I'm very discriminating, no flour no sugar. I am not a Foodie, while I do go out to eat on occasion, mostly cook for myself. Don't try to cook for me until you get to know me!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, lovers, touching, oceans, forests, vegetables, hot springs, adventures, 12-step recovery, my curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what desire means, where to go dancing, my addictive behaviors, my trip of a lifetime when I finally swam in the beautiful Mediterranean and attended the Fes Festival of World Music. I just returned from this adventure on June 30, 2014.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there is no typical ... I may be out dancing, cuddling up with a friend, or at home alone with my grief ....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm complex, most labels don't apply ...
You should message me if
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you would be happy knowing I'm dating more than one, you can describe our areas of convergence, you'd like to meet me in Sonoma and have a conversation while drinking tea or walking, or you have your own brilliant ideas for a get-together ... if you've done a HAI (Human Awareness Institute) workshop, even beter, or studied Tantra, or know how to OM ... and perhaps we could meet at a nondual Satsang, such as one given by Miranda Macpherson.