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51 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
6'1" / 185 cm · Male · White/Caucasian · Athletic · No children · Doesn't smoke ·..


I am friendly, educated and romantic and open for dates with a sweet guy who kisses and with whom I can share passionate love!

I am 51 now. Why do so many people lie about their age? I was in Rome with my best friends to celebrate.I swim every day and enjoy scuba diving ( I participate in Village Divers club).

The first week of March we went to Bonaire to scuba with some friends, It was grand, Seahorses and dolphins_ Squid!. I am planning to go to Thailand or Bali in December. Want to come? we could be a group!

I am working with gays in Uganda now.

I want a new lover, basically, but we can take it light. Mostly vegetarian, artist, teacher, science, love kissing and affection. great sex too. I teach French and am an exhibiting artist and published writer as well. Life is good. My 2 doggies Kama and Sutra are the greatest! They are little love machines!

Perfect Match

A man who is kind, loving and smart. A man I can travel with and scuba dive maybe ... can one dream? A man I will want to live with.

Ideal Date
Have a smoothie, go see art, dinner...

recently I have been listening to Arvo Part, Radiohead, Depeche Mode, david Bowie, Grace Jones, Nina Simone, Ray Charles, Dexter Gordon, Chet Baker, Bob Marley, Etta James, Cocteau twins, Monae, Baddu, Prince, 17th century French composers * Lully... I...

Movies and tv

I enjoy Netflix once in a while. I loved House of cards. I like mad men. I like fun action movies ... Great grand movies... all continents. I'm ok to go watch a big blockbuster with the guys...:) I enjoy korean movies for example... I just bought a tv after 10 years without because this winter was really cold!. Is cable really like paying to watch commercials???? More unnecessary spending for a very limited amount of quality shows , ugh, LOL
The daily show and Steven Colbert ... SNL even, not so sure about downtown abbey old ladies are fun but am I that gay LOL_


Rome by Robert Hughes was my last page turner. Loved Man with a blue scarf, on Lucien Freud. I read a lot. My students keep giving me Strand gift cards LOL Taipei by Taolin, just finished Hadrian memoirs by Yourcenar. Time to go back to the Strand! French Literature. I am only reading French for the next 6 months ... Houellebecq, Yourcenar, Stendhal, Navarre, Tournier, old and new rereads with a different eye
What I’m doing with my life
I am getting more social again after a period of reflection. I enjoy it.
Keep working at the busyness, which is going great. What recession?
Sculpting and dating...
I’m really good at
Teaching French. Talking about spirituality to atheists and about atheism to religious people. Meditation. Cooking. Discussing things and making people laugh. I'm a bit of a character :) I blow great bubbles when surrounded by 1000ands of fishies!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and engaging and quite self assured. I have a big heart. My accents in every language lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Souen, Zen palate, Hangawi!...real great wonderful vegetarian food. I love it so much, I could open a restaurant.
The six things I could never do without
comfortable shoes.
a few friends I love so much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Science and art, How it is that love is so simple yet so few people seem capable of it, ...
On a typical Friday night I am
What typical Friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will not be manipulated by stupid questions,
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to fall in love again