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51 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:29pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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6'1" / 185 cm · Male · White/Caucasian · Athletic · No children · Doesn't smoke ·..


I am friendly, educated and romantic and open for dates with a sweet guy who kisses and with whom I can share passionate love!

I am 51 now. Why do so many people lie about their age? I was in Rome with my best friends to celebrate.I swim every day and enjoy scuba diving . I enjoy playing tennis too.

I am working with gays in Uganda now. It s a huge crisis for them out there. They get beaten up like no tomorrow. If the mob doesn' t get them, surely hunger and lack of access to retrovirals will kill many of them. Will you help?

Here in NYC, I want a new lover, basically, but we can take it light. I am mostly vegetarian ( I can t do anything 100% it upsets my sense of wholeness), artist, teacher, science, love kissing and affection. great sex too. I teach French and am an exhibiting artist and published writer as well. Life is good. My 2 doggies Kama and Sutra are the greatest! They are little love machines! if we were 100 years later, you know I would clone them till I died and then again after my clone me would come back LOL. Thats why I am happy to be gay! LOL We don t repeat at aeternam.

I am getting back into making music. I ordered a new instrument. It s called a Hang drum. It was made for me in Europe and should be arriving momentarily. I am going to practice all winter! Hopefully my art will spill into it quickly so I can start performing next year. It s just a new instrument, I ve been doing art my whole life, so hopefully the instrument will love me back and we will communicate quickly.

Perfect Match

A man who is kind, loving and smart. A man I can travel with and scuba dive maybe ... can one dream? A man I will want to live with.

Ideal Date
Have a smoothie, go see art, dinner...

recently I have been listening to Arvo Part, Radiohead, Depeche Mode, david Bowie, Grace Jones, Dee-Lite, Nina Simone, Ray Charles, Dexter Gordon, Chet Baker, Bob Marley, Etta James, Cocteau twins, Monae, Baddu, Prince, 17th century French composers * Lully..., hang drums I... and the sound of the waves

Movies and tv

I like fun action movies ... Great grand movies... all continents. I'm ok to go watch a big blockbuster with the guys...:) I enjoy korean movies for example... I just bought a tv after 10 years without because this winter was really cold!. Is cable really like paying to watch commercials???? More unnecessary spending for a very limited amount of quality shows , ugh, LOL I enjoyed Grand hotel Budapest.


Rome by Robert Hughes was my last page turner. Loved Man with a blue scarf, on Lucien Freud. I read a lot. My students keep giving me Strand gift cards LOL Taipei by Taolin, just finished Hadrian memoirs by Yourcenar. Time to go back to the Strand! French Literature. I am only reading French for the next 6 months ... Houellebecq, Yourcenar, Stendhal, Navarre, Tournier, old and new rereads with a different eye. I just ordered 4 Osho books for good ol time sake!. Just joined the lavender book club and reading blue boy. Very funny!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am getting more social again after a period of reflection. I enjoy it.
Keep working at the busyness, which is going great. What recession?
Setting up an underground gay internet cafe and office in Africa.. Waiting for my hang drum. Meditate. Living in the now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching French. Talking about spirituality to atheists and about atheism to religious people. Meditation. Cooking. Discussing things and making people laugh. I'm a bit of a character :) I blow great bubbles when surrounded by 1000ands of fishies!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and engaging and quite self assured. I have a big heart. My accents in every language lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Souen, Zen palate, Hangawi!...really great wonderful vegetarian food. I love it so much, I could open a restaurant.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
comfortable shoes.
a few friends I love so much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Science and art, How it is that love is so simple yet so few people seem capable of it, ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What typical Friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will not be manipulated by stupid questions,
You should message me if
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you want to fall in love again