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37 Santa Barbara, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 16
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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recently back on okc after 4 years, so this profile is a bit outdated, working on getting it up to speed, so bear with me....

you don't know anyone like me. for reals. if you asked me to point to the north, i'd point up. i'm hemispherically balanced. bonus points if you know what that means. i daydream. a lot. i tend to do it at inopportune times, like when my boss is talking to me. i have an overactive imagination. if we have a conversation i will make you laugh.

i am very happy and have very few regrets. i love to travel and live way below my means to facilitate leaving the US for foreign soil as much as possible. i play the drums religiously. i have not owned a tv since 1998...this is what i'm most proud of. i have a fast bike, two green thumbs, and a brain full of science and 80's sitcom trivia. i'm right where i want to be.

about this whole stalker feature.....i don't browse anonymously and i click through okcupid pages all the time, so if you notice that i'm "stalking" you....i'm not, i'm just clicking around, don't take it personally.

I am the, taut, and the tame
What I’m doing with my life
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making chocolate/running a business selling chocolate

playing the drums (now in a band! Update: Now not in a band!)


traveling and making friends along the way

cooking gourmet (and not so gourmet) meals

rescuing plants from my black-thumbed friends

and more!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh


music (playing and listening)

roasting coffee (well, not really good, but getting better)

making fresh mozzarella


rotating 3D objects in my mind

making up my own words

finding the common thread


prioritizing my passions



confusing myself

making lists

and drinking and making people laugh again because i'm really good at doing them at the same time
The first things people usually notice about me
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i emit light
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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this is a ridiculous question....just ask
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
other countries and cultures to visit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
pretty much everything

chocolate making

running a business


where to travel to next

form in nature

logical constructs made fuzzy by experience

how tradition is destroying social development
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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you want to make a new friend...that's why i'm here, i work all the time and am hoping to meet new people to hang out with, get drinks with, etc...

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