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darbus

32 Los Angeles, CA Man

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  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
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Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We could polish this up to look as desirable as possible; however, that isn't going to get us anything but shiny objects and slippery fingers.

Theoretician by nature.
Artist by nurture.

Activities: A decently brewed cup of joe with a great friend. A well written book and a pen in hand to underline the best parts. Attempting hardware projects just to prove that I can. Pretending that I'm a local. On foot with my camera. Closing my eyes and hypothetically dreaming unknown futures to the sounds I hear of the present. [Feel free to stop reading at any time]. Summer afternoons listening to my grandparents share stories from the past. Mailing polaroids anonymously to random addresses with lines from great poets written on them. Taking things apart just to see how they work. Reading bedtime stories while performing the voices. Playing for solids because I really like stripes. Talking to the house plants in hopes they will grow stronger. Non-obtrusively viewing someone else's existence. Night swimming in a darkened pool lit by the stars. Conjuring jokes about the wicked. Watching the taillights drive away and pondering where they go. Secretly touching the museum art pieces. Experiencing life in slow motion with my headphones on as if it all has a continous soundtrack.

Interests: Philosophy. Black and White films. The French Revolution. Photography. The books on a shelf of another's library. Unplanned road trips. Trees. Postcards. Feeling another's laughter. Impressionism. Handwritten letters. Unknown artists. Subtitles. Printmaking. The Beat Generation. Numb fingers holding cold chess pieces. The shape of the clouds. Sporadically passionate kissing. Small cities trapped in a snow globe. Obscure individuals that have changed humanity...

INFJ, should we care to know those things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I capture, measure, & record photon particle activity and critique its aesthetical arrangements... just for the hell of it.

**My grandfather once told me, "It's not what you're doing but who you're doing it with that truly makes the difference."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing beyond the extension of my own hand.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know what they usually first notice but I can tell you what they usually first comment on.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book:
:: Joan Didion.
:: Roland Barthes.
:: Ernest Hemingway.
:: E.E. Cummings.
:: Gertrude Stein.
:: Jack Kerouac.
:: Truman Capote.
:: Alan W. Watts.
:: Annie Dillard.
:: Lydia Davis.
:: Anne Carson.
:: ...I have an ongoing love/hate relationship with Susan Sontag.

Film:
:: The Adventures of Babysitting.
:: Death Becomes Her.
:: Edward Scissorhands.
:: Heathers.
:: Overboard.
:: Benny & Joon.
:: Sleepless In Seattle.
:: The Truth About Cats & Dogs.
:: Dolores Claiborne.
:: Stand By Me.
:: Radio Flyer.
:: What's Eating Glibert Grape.
:: The Hours.
:: A League Of Their Own.
:: Moonrise Kingdom.
:: Garden State.
:: Lately, I'm very much concerned with the work of Maya Deren.

Television:
:: Northern Exposure.
:: My So Called Life.
:: Friends.
:: Life.
:: Bones. ...Her social awkwardness just kills me.
:: I have recently started the series, Breaking Bad... No spoils, please.

Music:
:: Radiohead.
:: Philip Glass.
:: Elliott Smith.
:: Nick Drake.
:: Morrissey.
:: Nirvana.
:: Jeff Buckley.
:: Tori Amos.
:: Patti Smith.
:: Billie Holiday.
:: Joni Mitchell.
:: Stevie Nicks.
:: Jacqueline du Pré.
:: ...and lately, John Cage.

Food:
:: Peanut butter & marmalade sandwiches.
:: Grilled cheese & tomato soup.
:: Ginger ale.
:: Toast.
(The palate of a refined kindergartener.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
:: My camera (preferable with film in it).
:: My journal.
:: A cup (or two) of coffee.
:: My favorite hoodie.
:: A handful of books.
:: The open road.

:: And my brother... Yes, I'd like to think I couldn't do without my baby brother.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
:: Where birds go to die. How come they just don't fall from the sky?
:: If absence makes the heart grow fonder, what does closeness do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At my kitchen table. Listening to shitty tunes over the airwaves with a pot of coffee. Painting something that ends up taped to my wall or in a portfolio case. **And checking in with the goldfish from time to time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm willing to admit most private things.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
:: You can promise to always let me have the window seat on the airplane.
:: Promise to share the radio on road trips.
:: Won't/don't steal the covers.
:: Use your blinker when changing lanes.
:: Or simply just feel inclined to say hello.