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36 Waterloo, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 12:10pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Buddhism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a person seeking to bring out my best and the best of those around me. I care about my friends, family and community. I make an effort to give people both the time and energy they need from me to feel loved and cared for, and also the time and space they need to be themselves and do the things they love and that make them happy. I believe everybody holds their own truth and knows what is best for themselves, and it is my pleasure to be in relationships with people in which we are both supporting each other in that goal.

I am quirky, funny, intellligent, self-aware, accepting, caring, disciplined, artistic, loyal, and hard-working.

I am attracted to men with these same qualities. I am very attracted to men who are relaxed with a quiet confidence, and who are looking for a woman to work alongside them towards a better world.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the Marketing Coordinator for an upscale retirement community. In my spare time I socialize, meditate, work out, bicycle, spend time in nature, read, and make art. Oh, and also I love to watch TV! I love analyzing media, and also indulging in mindless consumption of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self-direction, solving problems, making people laugh unintentionally, and backrubs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big smile!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anne Rice, Walt Whitman, HG Wells, JR Tolkien, L Frank Baum, LM Montgomery, Jules Verne. Books relating to Buddhism, historical fiction, YA, and social history.

Movies: Night at the Museum series; any adapation of Wells or Verne from any time period; Rent; anything related to Judd Apatow; BBC historical series.

Shows: Heartland, Once Upon a Time, BBC series, Big Bang Theory, Mindy Project (so sad it was cancelled), Arrested Development.

Music: 80s, in particular obscure Canadian 80s rockpop, plain old top 40, folk/singer songwriter. Sting, Police, Suzanne Vega, Fleetwood Mac, Roxy Music, Katy Perry, 8 Seconds, Crowded House.

Food: tacos, Subway Vegetarian sub, smoothies, club sandwiches, sushi, thai curry, popcorn, peanut butter and banana sandwiches, pears.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A quiet room.
My family, friends/community.
My meditative practice.
My work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things work, how I'm feeling, how others are feeling, how to solve problems in creative ways, whatever is happening in the moment, what the greater significance of any given moment might be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about at a local festival, restaurant or at a friend's house. Or hanging out in the park reading a book and enjoying the weather.

Or now that it is colder, maybe inside reading a book enjoying my cozy living space! :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm sensitive and I enjoy the quiet, simple life - I like to find excitement in small things, in ideas, in media and in conversation.

I'm Victorian in my sexuality, and it sometimes borders on asexuality. For the most part, I like myself and the person I am with to be a little distant emotionally, sexuality and physically, with gentle moments of touching and connection, or nice time cuddling quietly together, and not a lot of PDA or intense sex talk or action. Coming together, and enjoying time apart. And then it's really important to me that regularly (although not constantly) we come together for some crazy wild creative spiritual or just plain awesome doin' it. Because that's so important for keeping a couple in the same headspace and alignment, and it's good for the soul to express itself that way, especially for introverts and people like me who get stuck in their heads somtimes! But I have to be honest, I love the hot and cold, lots of time apart, come together, intensity and then part ways for a bit. My best marriage situation would look like two introverts who spend a lot of time doing their own thing, but in the next room over, and check in every so often with a kiss or witty comment, and then once in a while have a decadent day of love making before going back to the cerebral world of art and ideas we both live in.

Bonus points if we also throw in some good working out or meditation together in there too!
You should message me if
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You also live by the wisdom of this quote:

"Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

You trust yourself and what you want.