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darkRUFFLE

31 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:07pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Dutch (Okay)

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My self-summary
My politics are on the anarcho side, but context, complexity, and a lack of dogma are important.

QUEER
What I’m doing with my life
Singing karaoke, playing piano/guitar, trying to understand people, having fun adventures, dancing.

Finished grad school- somatic psychology- figuring out how to use my skills to facilitate healing for folks on an individual and macro level (ie- healing and interrupting cycles of abuse outside the PIC).

Getting into mindfulness (hello bay area)
I’m really good at
empathy. intuition. emotional depth. making inventive salads. spontaneous dance parties.
The first things people usually notice about me
Uncontrollable fits of laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
music: Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Submission Hold, !TchKung!,
Discharge Information Systems, Diamanda Galas, Philip Glass,
Santogold, Russian Circles, Explosions in the Sky, Cat Power,
Neutral Milk Hotel, KRS-ONE, Dark Dark Dark, Evangelista

TV: Hex, and it's the only thing I'll watch

books: Toni Morrison, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Michelle Tea, Dorothy
Allison
The six things I could never do without
fancy dark chocolate.
my piano.
something to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People and their relationships to each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
at home or out, exploring a new place or looking for a dance party
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to go on a bike ride/have an adventure, you want to make experimental music in a super low key playful way, you like cooking/baking, you want to make a dance routine or craft project, you want to go to a punk/metal/underground hip hop show with me. I would also LOVE a buddy to practice languages with, especially Spanish, but also Dutch, Arabic, or Croatian.

You are open to a variety of different types if relationships, you have radical politics and are pro sex work, you are homoemotional and non-normative.