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47 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I seek a spark that dazzles , a sizzle in a kiss, a chemistry beyond the grasps of lust

I am not an ordinary atheistic , socialist and do try to be interesting, evocative, capable , moral and tolerant. I try to appeal , or amuse myself, using edgy humour, shameless audacity , spontaneous wit & mischief.

If you are a bit kooky , a laugh , enlightened yet audaciously sexy, then stop and say hello to a groovy person who is looking to establish good friendships or fun that may lead to something passionate and longer term .
What I’m doing with my life
Contemplating abstract existential inconsistencies, like ' if we unscrew our belly-button will our bum fall off ?'

Developing my own freelance accountancy consultancy and training to be an integrative humanistic psychotherapist.
I’m really good at
Making others laugh. I am the funniest man i know and i know a couple of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a fast-talking,hell-raisin' son of a bitch , I'm a sinner and i know how to party ? ( call me bad ass )
But seriously i do have ultra cute and cheeky dimples, am young looking for my galloping senility , though well sophistifuckingcated .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate lists of likes but here goes.

I love Rock ' N' Roll.
Or Tom Waits, Radiohead, Black Keys, Ryan Adams, PJ Harvey, Aphex Twin ( & other ambient Warp bleeps ), Nirvana, Led Zep, Clash, Nick Cave, The The, Neil Young, Bob Dylan, Portishead, Florence & Machine , Arcade Fire, Massive Attack, Johnny Cash, Jeff Mills, Talking Heads or something with a funky bassline. The list is exhaustive but you get the picture.

Kafka, Dostoevsky, Hesse, Marques (and most existential writers ) , Kerouac , Bukowkski, I. Welsh and anything with lift up flaps.

Love The Coen Bros and odd leftfield independent stuff. Maybe the odd gangster flick but no Rom Coms ( weepy schoolgirl mush )

Love eating out - French, Indian, Japanese ( am half Japanese so love my Fish, Sushi etc ) and Tapas, anything but cheese.
I love experimental cooking for others ( whilst i order takeaway ).

I am no fan of shows and musicals ( willing to be challenged on anything ) but into live bands or festivals, theatre, stand up, art galleries, museums, partying and snuggling up with a bottle of wine with you ?

I do not have a TV so am uninterested in soaps and X Factor lazy reality TV but do watch art , science and historical documentaries, current affairs.and comedy on my laptop.
The six things I could never do without
Empathy, belongingness , compassion , intellect, self actualisation and a wiggle in my stride.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wilma Flintstone - perhaps i have been single too long but i really fancy Wilma ( she's a babe ).

But seriously, i think about the the absurdity of behaviour, the improbabilistic nature of creation amongst the cosmos ( dark energy, forces of nature, relativity theory, quantum gravitation and Tottenham's fluctuating season )

The only thing that i have tried and failed with is love. It is all or nothing for me as compromise leads to dysfunction. Life is too short , too prevous , too fragile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking cocktails in groovy bars whilst wearing a semi-crushed velvet pattern on the left lapel of my smoking jacket and clicking my fingers to Serge Gainsbourg
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a ladyperson and open to a potential interpersonal relationship that may lead to love, romance or a good friendship.

You are kind, authentic, intelligent , sexy and try to self develop by way of spontaneous curiosity and humour.

You think we would look pretty good together, could become good mates or you are rich with a serious heart condition.

You are looking for a big love