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46 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:06am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I seek a spark that dazzles , a sizzle in a kiss, a chemistry beyond the grasps of lust

I wonder whether love can be found using this site . I am not a ' player' despite accusations to the contary. Ask an honest question and i will respond in kind.

I am not an ordinary atheistic , socialist and do try to be interesting, evocative, capable , moral and tolerant. I try to appeal , or amuse myself, using edgy humour, shameless audacity and spontaneous wit & mischief.
I am suffiently mannered and can be taken anywhere ( besides shoe shopping ) and behind my playful exterior beats a romantic heart.

If you are a bit kooky , a laugh , enlightened yet audaciously sexy, then stop and say hello to a groovy person who is looking to establish good friendships that may lead to something passionate and long term.
What I’m doing with my life
Contemplating abstract existential inconsistencies, like ' if we unscrew our belly-button will our bum fall off ?'

Developing my own freelance accountancy consultancy and training to be an integrative humanistic psychotherapist.
I’m really good at
Making others laugh. I am the funniest man i know and i know a couple of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a fast-talking,hell-raisin' son of a bitch , I'm a sinner and i know how to party ? ( call me bad ass )
But seriously i do have ultra cute and cheeky dimples, am young looking for my galloping senility , though well sophistifuckingcated .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate lists of likes but here goes.

I love Rock ' N' Roll.
Or Tom Waits, Radiohead, Black Keys, Ryan Adams, PJ Harvey, Aphex Twin ( & other ambient Warp bleeps ), Nirvana, Led Zep, Clash, Nick Cave, The The, Neil Young, Bob Dylan, Portishead, Florence & Machine , Arcade Fire, Massive Attack, Johnny Cash, Jeff Mills, Talking Heads or something with a funky bassline. The list is exhaustive but you get the picture.

Kafka, Dostoevsky, Hesse, Marques (and most existential writers ) , Kerouac , Bukowkski, I. Welsh and anything with lift up flaps.

Love The Coen Bros and odd leftfield independent stuff. Maybe the odd gangster flick but no Rom Coms ( weepy schoolgirl mush )

Love eating out - French, Indian, Japanese ( am half Japanese so love my Fish, Sushi etc ) and Tapas, anything but cheese.
I love experimental cooking for others ( whilst i order takeaway ).

I am no fan of shows and musicals ( willing to be challenged on anything ) but into live bands or festivals, theatre, stand up, art galleries, museums, partying and snuggling up with a bottle of wine with you ?

I do not have a TV so am uninterested in soaps and X Factor lazy reality TV but do watch art , science and historical documentaries, current affairs.and comedy
The six things I could never do without
Empathy, belongingness , compassion , curious wonder , self actualisation and a wiggle in my stride.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Wilma Flintstone - perhaps i have been single too long but i really fancy Wilma ( she's a babe ).

But seriously, i think about the the absurdity of behaviour, the improbabilistic nature of creation amongst the cosmos ( dark energy, forces of nature, relativity theory, quantum gravitation and Tottenham's fluctuating season )

The only thing that i have tried and failed with is love. It is all or nothing for me as compromise leads to dysfunction. Life is too short , too prevous , too fragile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking cocktails in groovy bars whilst wearing a semi-crushed velvet pattern on the left lapel of my smoking jacket and clicking my fingers to Serge Gainsbourg
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a ladyperson and open to a potential interpersonal relationship that may lead to love, romance or a good friendship.

You are kind, authentic, intelligent , sexy and try to self develop by way of spontaneous curiosity and humour.

You think we would look pretty good together, could become good mates or you are rich with a serious heart condition.

You are looking for a big love