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darkchocolate41

43 Pittsburg, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:21pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Two-year college
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm now looking for a relationship,but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I've never been married,so I'm pretty sure it won't kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you're divorced I'm totally okay with that. You had to leave her in order to find me right? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm trying to enjoy life,get out more meet interesting people,and have fun. I want to do a little traveling,experience new things,and just relax. I took a semester off from school cause I was burnt out. Right now I just want to enjoy getting this far in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying positive,and keeping an open mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be forthright and direct when I need to be. Not in a bar-fight kind of way...but I do know how to get what I want.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books are urban romance novels.I don't have favorite movie,but like anything with Tyler Perry.I love Jazz,Blues some Classical,some Country,Reggae,and R&B. For food I love pizza,Chinese,Seafood(except fish), Mexican,and Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family
2) My books/novels
3) Passion
4)Income/Job
5) Love
6) I could never change myself to please other people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living my life to the fullest,and thinking about keeping happy that special man who will someday walk into my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working,unless I take a vacation day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You will just have to ask me .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1- Honest
2-romantic
3-willing to experience new things
4-confident
5-funny
6-compassionate ,and
7-because you want too.