I believe love is indivisible. Half of blue is still blue. Two wrongs are still wrongs. I find nothing is more attractive than kindness. I am strongly independent, but food, life, and laughing are all better with company.

I have a young son. I've never been married, though not for want of trying. I sing every day. I cook every day. I read every day.

I'm left-handed, right-brained, visually oriented, ENTP, the eldest son of the eldest son. Unlike most Asian guys, I rocked the verbal section of the SAT's, and am very in-tune with and aware of my emotions and of those around me. I've been an on-the-air DJ, a dancer, and a night club manager. I've spent 9 years making video games, on the business/operations side. My long term career goal is to launch my own publishing company.

When I have time for myself, I read, run, cycle, write, listen to music, and sing.

Lots of changes. Moving forward with my life. Running. Riding. Finishing my business degree. Writing a children's book. Breathing deeply. Burning brightly.

keeping my word, understanding people, leading, creative problem solving, cooking, being kind and polite to strangers, driving for the sake of driving, looking serious, shopping, video games, drinking really hot tea, hugging, being earnest, tickling, grabbing things off tall shelves, being self-aware and ordering dim sum. Not in that order.

Ridiculously tall and broad for an Asian guy.

Books: Bulfinch's Mythology -- Thomas Bulfinch, The Hero With a Thousand Faces -- Joseph Campbell, The Black Swan -- Nassim Taleb, The Power of Habit -- Charles Duhigg, The Little Prince -- Antoine de Saint Exupery, Love in the Time of Cholera -- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Norwegian Wood -- Haruki Murakami,Wicked -- Gregory Maguire.

Poets: T.S. Eliot, John Keats, William Butler Yeats, Pablo Neruda, Andrew Marvell.

Movies: Black Swan, The Wrestler, Hero, Moulin Rouge, In the Mood For Love, Roman Holiday, Hiroshima Mon Amour, It's a Wonderful Life, Romeo+Juliet, Fantasia, My Neighbor Totoro, Edward Scissorhands, Amadeus, Love Actually, Tampopo, Shaolin Soccer, L.A. Story, Before Sunrise, Bladerunner

Music: Teresa Teng, Marie Digby, New Order, Portishead, Carla Bruni, Norah Jones, The Killers, The Smiths, Ella Fitzgerald, Taylor Swift, Antonio Carlos Jobim, The Gipsy Kings, Cocteau Twins, Bossa Nova, Big Band, New Wave, Techno, House, Ambient, Dubstep, people with terrible voices who sing with their heart, people who sing everyday to themselves.

Food: Thai, Vietnamese, Japanese, Malaysian, Korean, Singaporean, Shanghainese, Indian, Noodles, Soup, Southeast Asian, French, Quebecker, Foie Gras.

My son
My family
Hope
A smile
A warm coat
Good shoes

How can I be a better person, man, father, brother, son?

Cooking a feast.

I have a Bacon number of 3. Before it ever was on MTV, I used to do spoken word. I did a private Hollywood Hills party for Jim Belushi's (Bacon number of 2) agent. I opened for Jim. Fairuza Balk (Bacon number of 2) opened for me.

You are kind, considerate, and thoughtful. You care about your loved ones, your family, and the people near you. You believe in yourself, but aren't afraid to rely on the help of your loved ones. You sing, even if in private and off key. And you can smile, often and genuinely.