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  • Ages 24–35
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My details

Last online
Nov 19, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Welsh (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a scientist by day, but would love for my writing to earn enough to live on someday. I love exploring foreign cities, cycling trails, playing football or hiking across the coast. I live for great art, whether it be written, filmed or played. You will find me just as comfortable dancing away at a music festival or playing board games in a quiet corner of a pub.

I can't go through the day without music, or more than a few days without my bike or an evening with my friends. I once ran a film festival and I sang in a rock band for a while. I believe that there are so many amazing things to do and learn out there, it seems a shame to restrict yourself to one or two.
What I’m doing with my life
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Science! I returned to academia last summer after two years working on wind farms for a renewable power consultancy. Now I'm a postdoc in material science at Oxford.

In my spare time, I write. I just finished a novel which I'm revising for publication next spring. I'm also part of a team developing a new board game, which is great fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mix tapes - although nowadays I just make mixes on Spotify.

I'd like to think I'm pretty decent at writing, and my singing voice isn't bad.

I can cook, but am much better at making it up as I go than following a recipe.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Either one of my many geeky t-shirts or my hair, which has defeated all attempts to control it. It has a plan, I find it's easier just to go along with it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love a lot of music across a lot of genres, but mostly things you would find at the End of the Road festival or the Other Stage at Glastonbury. Jazz, world music and dancey stuff also get a look in when I'm in the right mood. Top five right now would include The Hold Steady, Radiohead, The War on Drugs, Calexico and Public Service Broadcasting.

My reading list began with a lot of scifi in my youth, but now I read a lot of other genres of fiction, as well as popular science, economics, history and psychology. There are few authors I try not to miss - China Mieville, Neil Gaiman, George RR Martin, Nick Hornby, Neal Stephenson, Michael Chabon, Charles Stross, Malcolm Gladwell, Michael Lewis, Patrick Rothfuss, Terry Pratchett. Plus the classics - Kundera, Steinbeck, Hemingway, Douglas Adams, Iain Banks, Fitzgerald, Tolkien...

I really enjoy quirky films like High Fidelity, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Stranger Than Fiction or The Life Aquatic, but I also love a popcorn action or scifi movie - Heat, Inception, Aliens, Jurassic Park. I go through TV series on Netflix - The West Wing, House of Cards, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Fringe, Breaking Bad and The Killing are some favourites.

I also love games of various kinds, usually those I can play in company or that have a good story - board games like Cards Against Humanity, Risk:Legacy, Pandemic and Battlestar Galactica get a lot of playtime with my mates, and I also like a great video game from time to time - The Last of Us, Final Fantasy VII, Metal Gear Solid and Mass Effect are some favourites.

I love food, and there's very little I won't eat. I try to eat healthy most of the time but I occasionally succumb to a pulled pork roll, burrito or curry. I'm a little obsessed with avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to write with
My kindle
Good company
One of my bikes
The internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How society would work if we lived within our environmental means.

How much Shania Twain would freak out if Brad Pitt became a rocket scientist.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the pub, a gig or having a few drinks over a board game with friends. If I'm staying home, it will probably involve cooking something tasty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm colour blind. In practice this has very little impact on modern life other than a tendency for people to hold up pencils and ask me what colour they are.
You should message me if
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You're a writer and want to chat about creative stuff.

We share similar tastes and you want to share some awesome new band, film or book you think I'd like.

You feel like we'd get along.