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dasam

24 Chicago, IL Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:19pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I insist on enjoying my life. I try not to take myself too seriously, and I have a lot of fun. That said, I am highly ambitious, have a five year plan, and am a single father of two... cats.

I'm a Chicagoan born and raised. I love this city. I live in Lakeview now. I grew up and currently work in Lincoln Park. My office is a few blocks from my parents' place, and I shamelessly use my lunch break to raid their fridge on the regular. My family is very important to me.

I enjoy going to concerts, checking out comedy shows, going to the movies, watching Netflix with my cats, and dancing. I am about to start a class at Second City.

Basically, I'm a total stereotype - just one of those recovering addict, bisexual, ex-frat, cat-loving freight brokers you're always reading about in the news and seeing on TV.

My purpose for being on here is to date and have fun whether that leads to a relationship that lasts a few hours, days, weeks, or years. I'm not here to just chat. I want to meet people in real life, have fun, make some mistakes, and have some experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Watching Netflix with my cats.

I'm actively working on building a career. I've been at my company for a year and really enjoy the work I do.

I spend a lot of time hanging out with my friends: playing volleyball at the beach, dancing at clubs, and getting pancakes at midnight. I also am working on getting a stand-up routine ready to start hitting open mics.

I'm highly active in a recovery community, and that takes up a lot of my time. It's totally worth it. Also, totally necessary.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, making people laugh, and getting into the perfect amount of trouble.

I'm also really good at my job. Public speaking. Being shameless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter,

Fargo, Kill Bill, Silence of the Lambs, Mean Girls, Heathers, Legally Blonde, Barbarella, The Big Lebowski, When Harry Met Sally

30 Rock, Parks and Rec, Game of Thrones, The Office, American Dad, The League, Friends, Daredevil, Bob's Burgers

Avicii, Billy Talent, The Mountain Goats, VNV Nation, All Time Low, Allister

Pancakes, blue cheese burgers, fish and chips, chorizo tortas
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cats, my watch, pancakes, Netflix, and recovery.

That's six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
pancakes. Other things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
drop by the house to get in some QT with the cats, then out to meet friends to dance or get pancakes or go to a meeting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a sign made for my apartment reading "no scatplay". I also made it the name of my wifi. The dude at the store thought I was fucking nuts as did my neighbors I can only assume, which I kinda am! If i think something is seriously funny, I'll take it way too far.

I went to math camp... twice.

I've mentioned recovery a few times. Been clean over a year - I don't drink or do drugs at all. I don't mind being around alcohol or going to bars. Would rather steer clear of drugs and going to trap houses. My vices are cigarettes (though I'm trying to knockitoff with those) and caffeine.

Also, I mentioned that I'm bi. I'm not confused. Just bi. So, say hi!
You should message me if
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You know you're awesome. I appreciate people who appreciate themselves. If you're confident, then I'm confident that you should message me.

You're smart. I'm smart too.

You're in recovery. It would be wonderful to find someone who also has some clean time and understands my experience. Totally not necessary. However, current users of hard drugs need not apply.

You want to go on a date or have some fun. If you have an idea of something fun you'd like to do with me, let me know. I'm probably down.

You are direct. I am.

You have a five year plan.

Also, if you love cats.

Or, if you just want to! Let me know what you're looking for.