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34 Arlington, MA Man


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  • Ages 25–38
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm me. This is expanded upon below. You should read it if you're interested in such things.
What I’m doing with my life
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Full time, I work at a company that provides hospitals and other medical facilities with information systems. Part time I work as stage hand at various live music venues in and around Boston.

I also just started the whole dieting and exercise thing (Couch to 5k is currently kicking my ass, but the energy after going for a run is kind of amazing), in an effort to change that field on the right from "A little extra" to "Average" or "Fit". Well...that's not the reason I'm dieting, but I'll be happy when I can. So far so good! I think I'm almost to average? What's average!? Still seems a little extra to me. SOOON.
I’m really good at
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Making people laugh. I make it a point to try to have a positive impact on the people that I encounter (obviously especially friends), and humor seems to be the least I can do. Playing other people's music on a guitar (I'm terrible at writing my own). I have an impeccable sense of time and direction.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to be quiet in crowds, so maybe that?

But then my laugh, which can be....loud.

Physically? Probably my eyes. They're very blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm constantly listening to talk radio. My car radio is perpetually set to NPR, and generally only changes when I turn my iPod on.

Stephen King, R.A. Salvatore, George R. R. Martin, Chuck Palahniuk, Margaret Weis, Tracy Hickman, Dan Brown, Carl Sagan, Richard Dawkins. Currently re-reading The Song of Ice and Fire series.

Donnie Darko, Fight Club, Snatch, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Idiocracy, Memento, The Big Lebowski, Pulp Fiction, Dr. Horrible's Singalong Blog (does that count as a movie?).

Breaking Bad, Doctor Who, Hannibal, Fargo (show and movie), Sherlock, Sons of Anarchy, anything and everything by Joss Whedon and J.J. Abrams (well...maybe not Felicity).

Jonathan Coulton, They Might Be Giants. Mastodon, Pantera, Disturbed, Metallica, Led Zeppelin, Tool, Queensryche, System of a Down, Down, Black Sabbath. I'm on a bit of a Panic at the Disco kick lately. A bit poppy-er than I normally enjoy, but they're fantastic. (Especially live).

Food? I'd have to say Japanese, although I actually don't really like Sushi. But I'm usually up for anything. I can always find something I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, family, guitar, cell phone, computer, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, Music, proper ways to argue/discuss/disagree without falling into the black hole of logical fallacies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love going to the movies, so if there's a movie I want to see, I'll usually be there when it opens on a Friday night.

I might be at a bar watching a local band if someone I enjoy is playing nearby.

I recently got into poker, and I play in a pub league. If I'm super bored, I might be doing that. I stayed away from the game for a good long while, because I was never any good at it. Actually having given it a chance, I'm finding that the game has a lot to teach about strategy and patience. And it's super fun.

But mostly I just like spending time with any of my friends. Getting some dinner, a beer or two, talking, whatever. To me the company is more important than the activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm terrified of any insect larger than an ant. No problem with Arachnids, though. I'm weird.
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If you actually made it this far and find me interesting? If you want to have a beer or some coffee some time.

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