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dasheldreaming

26 / M / bisexual / Available

Greensboro, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Rather not say
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am ephemeral, fey, and paradoxical.

My Self-Summary

"The question is always the same, with a dragon: will he talk to you or will he eat you? If you can count upon his doing the former, and not doing the latter, why then you're a dragonlord." --Ursula La Guin

I'm a cusp. Why don't they ever allow for cuspies when asking for signs?

I put half. The other half? You figure it out. 8}

What I’m doing with my life

dreaming, growing coral, gaming, teaching, learning, creating, talking to birds, throwing popcorn at the end of the world, flirting, hurting, laughing, crying, meeting and seeking and sometimes sleeping through (I hate to waste time, but dreams are good for you) all things new...

I’m really good at

questioning, dreaming, helping others believe and see, healing and inspiring growth and creativty.

I also seem to be some sort of psychic catalyst.

The first things people usually notice about me

Apparently I'm "really thin" and look "different." ::shrugs:: Apparently it's not my sunshine smile or my otherworldly good looks. 8}

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

There are so many books and movies, though...
_The Last Unicorn_ (Peter S. Beagle), _The Poisonwood Bible_, _Requiem for Homo Sapiens_ (David Zindell), _The Uplift Series_ (David Brin), _The Fionavar Tapestry_, _Cities in Flight_, _Another Roadside Attraction_, more...

...AI, Edward Scissorhands, Flight of the Dragons, stardust, Pan's Labyrinth, Labyrinth, Legend, The Dark Crystal, The Last Unicorn, more...

...everything is music...

...sushi! Mediterranean! Mexican! Crabs! Tomatoes, cumin, curry, chili, chipotle, tomatillos, rice! More! Mmmmmm...

The six things I could never do without

The only thing I cannot do without is myself./Do what without?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

everything/nothing

On a typical Friday night I am

typical? Lwj! Yeah, right.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Just because I love everything does not mean I always like everything.

You should message me if

You want to/you're intrigued/you're confused.