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45 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:40pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I never liked these in college entrance applications and I sure don't like them now. But ... Decent guy, flawed but interesting. Had my ups and downs, but learned something from all of them. And that's the important thing, right? I've been a war reporter in Iraq, Lebanon and Pakistan, but have been traveling for the last two years. For the first time in years, I only have to guide myself by what comes my way. "First star to the left, and straight on 'till morning."

Just spent a year in Bogotá, and have returned to NYC and hoping to meet some cool folks to hang out with. Who knows... maybe more? However, upfrontness: I'm not looking for anything serious. Friends are a priority right now.

I should also say, with fair warning, I'm VERY liberal. Not commie liberal, but if you consider yourself "traditional", Republican, think guns are cool for something other than hunting, or believe in some higher deity, crystals or whatever, you and I will likely not get along that great. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but life is short and I want to be around people that I don't feel the need to mix it up with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Oh, boy. This is a tough one. I'm working on that, but in the meantime, I've traveled all around Asia and then through Australia and South America. Just seeing what there is to see, who there is to meet and what there is to eat. I love the variety and experiences that come with wandering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems, fixing things, landing on my feet, improvising, boiling things down to their essentials. I'm a reductionist!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intensity? My small love handles? I have no idea. My eyes, perhaps. They're pretty intense. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jazz and most Asian cuisines. Love Chinese, Thai and Indonesian. A good wine, chilled and white, to go with it all. Sounds nice, eh?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
blah. The whole point of my new life is to boil things down to their essentials. But, because I'm a journalist and photographer, I need my gear. So, let's see... Six things:
1. MacBook Pro
2. Camera
3. iPad for books and videos
4. iPhone for comms and navigation
5. Good, good coffee.
6. Conversation with someone interesting that goes along with the coffee.

I suppose I should also include passion, intelligence and great sex just to keep up appearances on this site.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to go next and what to do next. I know I should really be more mindful of the moment, and I'm working on that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try not to have typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm afraid of heights, sorta.
You should message me if
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You want a fun adventure with a cool guy who won't drag you down!