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28 M Irvine, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:02pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'll be there to listen if you need to talk, and I won't even make suggestions on how to remedy the situation. I'm the one that you can lean on when you've had a bad day.

I'm calm, collected and diligent. I plan things out and follow through to the end. I know where I'm going in life, and I'm going to do everything to get there. That's one side of me. If you get to know me, you'll also have to put up with my more imaginative, vibrant and deeply adventurous side as well. I have a deep affiniation for traversing worlds unexplored. I'm the type who runs through thunderstorms and explore underground tunnels.
What I’m doing with my life
Back in 2012, I was working at a domestic abuse shelter for Asian/Pacific Islander women. They entrusted me with the management of three different shelter facilities, and employees that I could boss around. Simply put, it was the best job I ever had. But, I left all for grad school. Flash forward 2 years and I'm finished with my master's degree in urban planning at UC Irvine. I'm working as a consultant at a city planning department with an eye towards business development work for my firm in the near future. Getting back on OkCupid now that I have my career set and I know where I'll be for the next few years.

And when I'm free? I like to hike, dance, walk around and explore neighborhoods, play soccer, go to the beach, do some tai chi, Netflix stuff, play board games, read/learn just about anything.
I’m really good at
Breathing, and dancing! But I'm much better with the first, having done it for some 27 years.

I'm also good at: making others laugh, singing, computers, finance, writing, martial arts, and exploring the metaphysical boundaries of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
Brimming with confidence in everything I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Parks and Rec, Community, Grey's Anatomy, 500 Days of Summer, Stranger than Fiction, Star Trek, How I Met Your Mother, The Count of Monte Cristo, Little Miss Sunshine, Finding Nemo

Fast Food Nation, The Joy Luck Club, Poisonwood Bible, Outlier, 1984, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Nothing to Envy, Catfish and Mandala. A lot of non-fiction psych books these days.
The six things I could never do without
1.) Hope
2.) My Mom
3.) Love
4.) Heaters
5.) Randomness
6.) Happy People
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Clever things in the universe.

How to make meaningful friendships that lasts longer than economic cycles.

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego and how has she eluded capture for so long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving to my friends place(s) to embark on adventures. In search for entrance to the unexplored kingdoms of steam. Or maybe,

...Watching a movie in the comfort of my own home. With you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will share just about anything with you. That is...if we can develop unbreakable trust. That means that we have to be able to communicate with each other. For now, let's just say private things should be private.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you want something meaningful. Nothing else will ever do.