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27 / M / Straight / Single

Irvine, California

His Details

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Political / Government
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'll be there to listen if you need to talk, and I won't even make suggestions on how to remedy the situation. I'm the one that you can lean on when you've had a bad day.

I'm calm, collected and diligent. I plan things out and follow through to the end. I know, that's sounds a little boring. But hey! it's because I know who I am and what I want in life. It affords me the chance to make extremely rash and spontaneous decisions in other parts of my life, and that I certainly do lot of.
What I’m doing with my life
Last year I was working at a domestic abuse shelter for Asian/Pacific Islander women. They entrusted me with the management of three different shelter facilities, and an employee that I could boss around. Simply put, it was the best job I ever had. But, I left all the wonderfulness of it for the intellectual rigors of grad school.

I'm at UC Irvine right now, studying urban planning and working part-time at an economic consulting firm. Not having enough to do, I've also joined a stock investing club and an entrepreneur club.
I’m really good at
Breathing, and dancing (hip hop mostly, but I have tried my hands at Salsa)! But I'm much better with the first, having done it for some 26 years.

I'm also good at: making others laugh, singing, computers, finance, writing, martial arts, and exploring the philosophical boundaries of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
Brimming with confidence in everything I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Community, 500 Days of Summer, Stranger than Fiction, How I Met Your Mother, The Count of Monte Cristo, Little Miss Sunshine, October Sky

Fast Food Nation, The Joy Luck Club, Poisonwood Bible, Outlier, 1984, Jude the Obscure, Nothing to Envy, Catfish and Mandala. A lot of non-fiction psych books these days.

And for food, well, I love ramen. Lately, Korean food. And always, Mexican food.
The six things I could never do without
1.) Hope
2.) Family
3.) Love
4.) Heaters
5.) Randomness
6.) Happy People
7 (bonus!). Spinach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Clever things in the universe.

How to make meaningful friendships that lasts longer than economic cycles.

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego and how has she eluded capture for so long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving to my friends place(s) to embark on adventures. In search for entrance to the unexplored kingdoms of steam. Or maybe,

...Watching a movie in the comfort of my own home. With you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is there a private thing I'm not willing to admit?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you want something meaningful. Nothing else will ever do.