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28 M Irvine, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'll be there to listen if you need to talk, and I won't even make suggestions on how to remedy the situation. I'm the one that you can lean on when you've had a bad day.

I'm also random, quixotic and painfully logical. I'm the type who runs through thunderstorms and explores underground tunnels, and then goes to work the next day pushing papers.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've had a pretty exciting life after college. I was a pretty decent software engineer, then an excellent operations manager (at a domestic abuse shelter). I was even a good teaching assistant at some point. And now, I'm a city planner, working for a private consulting firm in a city and in charge of business development for my firm. You can say, I'm in a "firm" place in my life. Haha. Getting back on OkCupid now that I have my career set and I know where I'll be for the next few years.

And when I'm free? I like to hike, dance, walk around and explore neighborhoods, go to the beach, do some tai chi, Netflix stuff, play board games, read/learn just about anything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Breathing, and dancing! But I'm much better with the first, having done it for some 28 years.

I'm also good at: getting lost in IKEA, making others laugh (mostly at me), singing in the rain, airbending, counting the number of tiles are in my ceiling, and exploring the metaphysical boundaries of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Brimming with confidence in everything I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Community, Grey's Anatomy, The Last Airbender, 500 Days of Summer, Stranger than Fiction, Star Trek, How I Met Your Mother, The Count of Monte Cristo, Little Miss Sunshine, 13 Going on 30

Fast Food Nation, The Joy Luck Club, Poisonwood Bible, Outlier, 1984, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Nothing to Envy, Catfish and Mandala

My dream is to someday have a wooden oak bookshelf in a mansion high up in the alps. It would be completely empty except for a single item: a kindle-type device with all of my books on it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Hope
2.) Family
3.) Spinach
4.) I pretty much don't need anything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Clever things in the universe.

How to make meaningful friendships that lasts longer than economic cycles.

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego and how has she eluded capture for so long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Driving to my friends place(s) to embark on adventures. In search for entrance to the unexplored kingdoms of steam. Or maybe,

...Watching a movie in the comfort of my own home. With you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm looking for a long-term relationship because I'm lazy. It takes way too much to get to know someone, to fall in love with them and then to have them walk out of your life. One of my favorite quotes is: "It takes you an hour to like someone, a day to love them, but a lifetime to forget them."
You should message me if
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If you want something meaningful. Nothing else will ever do.