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29 Irvine, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 13
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm random, quixotic and painfully logical. A life-long lover of knowledge and exploration of the unknown. I'm the type who runs through thunderstorms and explores underground tunnels, and then sits down at the local bookstore to read everything I can.

I'm an extremely social person, fearless in making friends on a whim. I credit it to my listening skills, which I have been consciously working on for years. I'll be there to listen if you need to talk, and I won't even make suggestions on how to remedy the situation. I'm the one that you can lean on when you've had a bad day.
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a pretty decent software engineer, then an excellent operations manager (at a domestic abuse shelter). And now, I'm a city planner, working at a private consulting firm. It's a startup firm, with all the usual challenges and rewards. I'm out at a lot of networking events and mixer, and always on the prow for new business opportunities to keep my people employed. Getting back on OkCupid now that I have my career set and I know where I'll be for the next few years.

And when I'm free? I like to hike, dance, walk around and explore neighborhoods, go to the beach, Netflix stuff, play board games, read/learn just about anything. I go on a lot of Meetups, looking for a taste of things I've yet to experienced.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Breathing, and dancing! But I'm much better with the first, having done it for some 28 years.

I'm also good at: getting lost in my own head, making others laugh (not sure if they're laughing at me or with me), singing in the rain, airbending, counting the number of tiles are in my ceiling, and exploring the metaphysical boundaries of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Brimming with confidence in everything I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Grey's Anatomy, Law & Order: SVU, The Last Airbender, 500 Days of Summer, Stranger than Fiction, Star Trek, How I Met Your Mother, The Count of Monte Cristo, Little Miss Sunshine, 13 Going on 30

Fast Food Nation, The Joy Luck Club, Poisonwood Bible, Outlier, 1984, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Nothing to Envy, Catfish and Mandala
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Hope
2.) Spinach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Clever things in the universe.

How to make meaningful friendships that lasts longer than economic cycles.

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego and how has she eluded capture for so long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Driving to my friends place(s) to embark on adventures. In search for entrance to the unexplored kingdoms of steam. Or maybe,

...Watching a movie in the comfort of my own home. With you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm looking for a long-term relationship because I just can't stand the idea of losing someone anymore. It takes way too much to get to know someone, to fall in love with them and then to have them walk out of your life. One of my favorite quotes is: "It takes you an hour to like someone, a day to love them, but a lifetime to forget them."
You should message me if
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If you want something meaningful. Nothing else will ever do.