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28 M Irvine, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:03am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'll be there to listen if you need to talk, and I won't even make suggestions on how to remedy the situation. I'm the one that you can lean on when you've had a bad day.

I'm random, quixotic and painfully logical. I have a deep fondness for traversing worlds unexplored. I'm the type who runs through thunderstorms and explores underground tunnels.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've done a lot of things I'm proud of in my life. I was a pretty decent software engineer, then an excellent operations manager (at a domestic abuse shelter). I was even a good teaching assistant at some point. And now, I'm a city planner, working for a private consulting firm in a city with an eye towards business development for my firm. I'm in a firm place in my life. Getting back on OkCupid now that I have my career set and I know where I'll be for the next few years.

And when I'm free? I like to hike, dance, walk around and explore neighborhoods, play soccer, go to the beach, do some tai chi, Netflix stuff, play board games, read/learn just about anything.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Breathing, and dancing! But I'm much better with the first, having done it for some 27 years.

I'm also good at: making others laugh, singing, computers, finance, writing, martial arts, and exploring the metaphysical boundaries of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Brimming with confidence in everything I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Parks and Rec, Community, Grey's Anatomy, 500 Days of Summer, Stranger than Fiction, Star Trek, How I Met Your Mother, The Count of Monte Cristo, Little Miss Sunshine

Fast Food Nation, The Joy Luck Club, Poisonwood Bible, Outlier, 1984, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Nothing to Envy, Catfish and Mandala. A lot of non-fiction psych books these days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Hope
2.) My Mom
3.) Love
4.) Heaters
5.) Randomness
6.) Happy People
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Clever things in the universe.

How to make meaningful friendships that lasts longer than economic cycles.

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego and how has she eluded capture for so long.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Driving to my friends place(s) to embark on adventures. In search for entrance to the unexplored kingdoms of steam. Or maybe,

...Watching a movie in the comfort of my own home. With you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a poor sense of direction. GPS is not only my friend but a neccesity.
You should message me if
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If you want something meaningful. Nothing else will ever do.