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datingagain0214

40 / F / Straight / Single

Rolla, Missouri

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:09pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.53m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My ideal match will be a man of integrity, honesty & high moral values; someone that will cherish me and the time we have together. I truly want someone who when we hold hands I tingle; who will let me rest my head on their shoulder and just be with one another, safe and content. I’m not desperate and won’t settle. I want a man in my life but don’t need one; I hope you feel the same way. I want someone who wants JUST ONE...I think of it this way; take a box of chocolates, you could sample each one in the box or you could find something sweet & truly enjoyable in just one. No need to taste each one In the box just because their there. Cherish the sweet simplicity & enjoy the uniqueness of one!

I have been off the dating market for TWENTY years! Yikes! So, this whole dating thing is a bit out of my realm of normal at this point! Bare with me as I try to maneuver my way through the dating experience. :)

I have three children & they keep me very busy. They are my world & anyone who wants to be part of my life must understand that. I think a strong companship is a must as you need someone to share your life journey with. The kids will only be young for a while and I plan to enjoy them while they are but would LOVE to have someone in my life that can enjoy that too.
I love to travel and hope one day to have more time to get back to water-skiing again. I competed in a 1/2 marathon last year and would like to continue running -- besides the running of my kiddos!

If interested I'm a kind, caring, honest (maybe to a fault) & compassionate woman who hopes to find a special someone to share the journey!

Beyond that; if you're interested it's imperative to me that you have NEVER CHEATED in a relationship. Yes, I've been hurt & someone of the utmost integrity, faithfulness, & honesty is the right match for me!
What I’m doing with my life
Working and taking care of my children. I don't NEED a man in my life but I would like one. I truly enjoy the companship and having someone to share the highs and the lows!
I’m really good at
Multi-tasking and scheduling. As a single mom I have to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love comedies, romances, thrillers; am not into scary movies or sci fi.

I like just about any music except acid rock or rap. Other than that I'm open and enjoy music immensely.

Food.... there is not much I don't like! LOVE sushi, steak, seafood, soup!!
The six things I could never do without
1. My kids!!!!
2. My kids!!!!! Oh, did I say that already? ;-) Bares repeating
3. Family and Friends
4. My phone
5. My day planner
6. You?!?!?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the future holds.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on the time of year but often at some sporting event. When not at that, however, I love to go out to dinner and a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you want to know anything private you have to get to know me!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
1. If communication matters to you & you understand the inportance of talking to one another.

2. If hunting, fishing & being with the "boys" are not your top priority.

3. If you care enough to take care of yourself physically. Initial chemistry is very important.

4. You live close enough to actually be able to put some time & effort into building a relationship.

5. If I message you and you’re not interested... SAY SO! I'll do the same.

6. Age matters to me, if your younger than 32 and don't have children we are probably at different places in our lives. I'm NOT a cougar looking for some young thing to rock my world!! Likewise, if your mid 50's or older we also are likely at different places in life and I don't wish to live the latter part of my life alone.

7. I'm not racist & believe some of the most handsome men in the world are men of color. However, for me & my children, I will not get involved in an interracial relationship. I see no problem with it but its not the choice for me nor do I wish to cause added challenges for my kids.