There is a girl in my life and she is you. I imagine I am talking to you. Looking into your eyes. Enjoying having my hand in yours as we walk down the sidewalk, sharing adventures large and small. Listening to your voice. Enjoying your feminine presence. Kissing you spontaneously, whenever it feels right.
By now you’ve looked at my photos and are probably thinking “this guy is a bit out there” That strange old bike, sailing, traveling, horseback riding, hiking, dancing and all. How about hanging out and quiet times? It’s true that I like to be active, but I say “everything in moderation, including moderation”. And I do a lot of hanging out. Snuggling on the couch with a movie is a favorite pastime as is going for walks and enjoying a meal out together.
I’m real and honest, have all my hair and teeth, a car, and don’t live with my mom. I am not looking for a nurse with a purse. I am healthy and can take care of myself. I really enjoy living in the city but sometimes I yearn for country or lake living. Just not alone.
I am looking for a wonderful lady to spend the rest of my life with. Although I enjoy single life, and my friends and activities, I am looking forward to the day that I meet you, the lady that will make it complete. Almost everything I enjoy will be better with a companion. Walks around the lake, meals together, winter getaways, canoeing, hiking, biking, finding neat restaurants, movies, music, dancing, you name it.
So here you are in my mind’s eye. I know a lot about you already. You are cute (to me), happy, flirty and adventurous, slim to average body, fun and outgoing. Not overly serious, cautious, or fearful. You are smart, confident, and able to be silly and laugh at yourself. A heart of gold. You are available and not playing the field. You are looking for a long lasting relationship and are willing to invest in it. You are not looking for a guy to support you; you are financially secure.
In return you get a guy that respects women, likes road trips, exploring out of the way places, finding hole in the wall gems that are only ours. Someone who loves to get dressed up and go out but also enjoys spreading the newspaper between us on the couch while we read interesting articles out loud to each other. I am a bit of a newsaholic. And pretty liberal.
We turn the music up and dance in the living room (I can teach you if you don't know how). We enjoy being spontaneous when opportunity comes knocking. We enjoy being intimate. You will get a guy who has opened up with age, full of wonder, found his inner child. Someone who loves to give his gal the tingles while he kisses the back of her neck and puts his arms around her. Someone who will challenge you to be better, to live life fuller, to be the first ones on the dance floor.
I retired early, and though I would love to find someone to share this lifestyle I will follow my heart if you are close and have a plan. I dearly would love to find a way to get out of here for part of the winter.
If you like what you see here be sure to write. I am looking for you.