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davec88

39 / M / straight / Single

San Diego, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am positive, creative, and a gentleman.

My Self-Summary

Hi there! Maybe we're a match, or maybe not. Here are a few things about me off the top of my head. Traits of mine that are easily noticed are my respectfulness, intelligence, open-mindedness, general integrity, explorative, and affectionate. I have interests in ESP and the mind, music, art, travel, exploration, the outdoors/hikes, new things, and new friends. I have some fun friends who like to get together for happy hours, and local events. I am not interested in having kids of my own, though a ready-made family can be OK.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a partner in an Internet travel company, specializing in international travel. I also teach at Mesa College part-time on the side. Aside from working out of the home, I do a lot of research toward a book series that will be on ESP and facets of the paranormal, particularly how they relates to philosophy, physics, and the nature of "mind/consciousness." Its a career path, so when I spend some time writing and reading it counts as "time working for the man," not as free time that my date should be jealous of. I have plenty of time to spend with her (potentially you) regardless. After growing up in Connecticut, I went to the University of Maryland followed by San Diego State for degrees in Astronomy. I can take you out to see the stars and tell you all about them.

I’m really good at

I've always had an active imagination and desire to explore. Thus, travel and adventure both locally and afar are high on my list, including hikes and visiting "art towns" or other unique spots. Highlights include a road trip around western Canada and 15 days in Iceland and Greenland. But sports and other outdoors activities are always good as well. The latest rally with a volleyball, tennis, or billiards is seldom like the one before it. I enjoy basketball and occasional cycling too. My explorer side also enjoys a broad variety of music, local Art Walk events, wine tasting, movies/shows, and new spots to eat or catch a coffee/tea. My sense of humor is fine. It pops out morea nd more as I date someone. But I never can remember a good joke I've heard! I'm firstly a good conversationalist and a good listener.

The first things people usually notice about me

Intelligence, affection, big blue eyes, open-mindedness, adventure, loyalty, and general integrity.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Like to open the windows and listen to the rain. Daydream. Like typical "guy" movies (action/sci-fi/fantasy/drama) and comedy. Shows: Lost, Fringe, spy shows, comedy. I enjoy a broad range of music, but not much rap/country. But I get a bit tired of shows about hospitals, lawyers (unless its funny like Ally McBeal), or CSI. I like to travel and explore: Iceland, Aruba, Puerto Rico, Costa Rica, Canada, a good road trip with tunes, and Main Street USA. Locally, I like wine bars, happy hour spots, scenic parks, beach areas, and reading at a hotel bar/lounge or coffee/tea spot. The Santa Margarita River Trail in Fallbrook.

The six things I could never do without

Friendship, music, art, relatives, writing, exploring/travel.

On a typical Friday night I am

I may be out with friends at Happy Hour or a movie. If no one is available, I could be reading or seeing family.

You should message me if

...you think we have a few things in common, or I intrigue you. Or if I already wrote to you (yes please! write me back!)