I'm in love with a wonderful person. I'm not against seeing other people, but I like to check in about it.
I have gender feelings, but the reality is that some of my behaviour has been normatively male, and I am effectively a man in the world. I prefer to be called a boy though, since you asked.
Birthplace: Leeds, West Yorks
Class: Lvl 7 Self-Mythologiser; Lvl 4 Fretter, Lvl 2 Geomancer
Hi Roll: Sense of Justice; Good Nails
Lo Roll: Life Direction; Interpersonal Skills
INTP (borderline INFP). Enneagram 5 (borderline 1). Cancer (borderline Leo). Boy (borderline not-boy). Melancholic (borderline phlegmatic). Excited about having more gender options on here. In a Big Five Personality test, I scored high on Neuroticism and Openness, and very low on Agreeableness.
Very silly person with a headful of bloatflies. Living with depression and advanced sleep phase disorder. Mostly I cope by watching Steven Universe.
I have video game opinions
Heads up: I'm disinclined to date just now, but I'm eager to meet people.
To the filth who run this site: it is indefensible to run experiments on your users without their consent. Rationalise all you like.
I would like to meet people to play Pokémon or D&D, draw simple comics, and undermine capitalism with.
Places you might find me, roughly in order of frequency: in bed with a laptop, in the library, in front of a games console, on a picket line or march, in a grimy pub.
I'm pretty into reading, history and video games.
Despite appearances, I'm a very affectionate person. I like people to think I'm smart, but I'm not all that cerebral; I just kind of feel my way through everything.
My emotional intelligence is a bit hit and miss. I spend most of my time alone, and so my perspective can be a little dippy. In some contexts, I have total self-knowledge, but in others, I struggle to identify patterns in my own behaviour. I am very sensitive to the needs of others when I'm paying attention, but I'm not always paying attention. I am responsive and communicative when it suits me, and completely unreachable when it doesn't. As a result, I'm probably not a very good leader, and I can be a middling boyfriend. The sort of MP who can be electric in the Commons when they've prepared for a topic, but who shrinks from their constituency duties.
Foreign countries I talk about a lot, by frequency: Norway; Japan; Germany; the DRC; the US; the ROK; Eritrea; Finland.