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46 San Ramon, CA Man


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  • Ages 28-48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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White, Other
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Dutch (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Honest and good hearted man, holds undergrad from Berkeley and masters from a top 3 ranked b-school, has established IT/business career (although hoping to exit from corporate world soon), travelled over 80 countries, interests include organic vegetable gardening, vegan cooking, technology, feminism, futurism / sustainability, language & cultural exchange, sociopolitical writing / advocacy / activism, nonprofit / charity activities

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What I’m doing with my life
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Work internationally as a technology consultant, manager, entrepreneur.

(Now I have more geographic and time freedom since my kids have already grown to adulthood and moved away to live at their university)

Studying for some certification exams PMP, CSM, HSK, etc.

Considering how to transition my after hours humanitarian and environmental advocacy work to be the main career focus

Hiking, swimming, touring... improving health... staying in contact with nature

Open to find my future life partner (girlfriend or wife) but not rushing... should be the right person and start as good friends first...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication, problem solving, mentoring, helping others, making peace, bringing people together

Technology, business, real estate, international relations, politics, and languages
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes and thick lips lol...

Unusual generosity, empathy, sensitivity...

Robust knowledge and life experience in many topics... Multitasking many projects
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food - vegetarian, preferably organic vegan; Chinese, Indian, Japanese, most other Asian; lots of green vegetables, soups, stir fry, salad, etc. Home cooked is awesome...

Books - mostly non-fiction - self-help/personal growth, biographies, political, IT, cooking, gardening

Music - mostly electronic (trance, techno, etc. 80s, 90s, current), some hip hop, some alternative or vintage rock... depends on activity

Movies - comedy, sci-fi, political, documentary
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In truth can do without anything... but for the sake of answering:

1. good healthy food, especially abundant fresh green veggies
2. access to information (whether books, mentors, or the internet)
3. garden / parks / farms / nature (need to see sunlight, plants, water, wildlife in motion)
4. loving, being loved, affectionately touched, and warmly held
5. hope of fulfilling one's dreams/purpose (fortunately self-generated from deep inside...)
6. sharing life, laughter, humor, smiles, and profound connection with good people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How to save our planet, its foliage, air, water, and animals (they deserve same rights as us)
- How to evolve into the most loving, ethical, and capable person I can be, and help others
- The massive societal shifts that are coming and how to navigate those to an optimal outcome
- History, politics, philosophy, psychology, and most of the other social sciences
- The best way to live; how to simplify/automate
- The next creative project or learning experience
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting with friends at home and cooking a special meal, or enjoying an evening out in the city -- fine dining, walks, music / lounge venues, etc. Sometimes travelling.

I'm a big kid, like to be silly, have fun... bowling, video games, dancing, etc.

Sometimes engaged in creative works -- web design, writing, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I believe women are the superior gender. I prefer to see women in control of the world, we would have less war and less damage to the planet if we did that.

I admire strong women who can be the boss / decision-maker, take charge, and make the first moves. I especially admire one who can direct her man's creative energies and potential to successful accomplishment for a lofty social purpose, not consumerism.
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