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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–56
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 18
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Sanskrit (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am polyamorous, with one long term partner. I would love to find another SO, or two, so I am testing the waters of OkCupid.

I am a scientist, mystic, musician, artist, and horticulturalist with an acute interest in the possibility of a sustainable future. Being poly, and having many interests, there are lots of possibilities for what we can share. I do not expect any one person to fulfill all my needs, or to rely on me for all theirs.

I fantasize about starting a line marriage, and I like to explore the endless possibilities for intimate connections. One of the greatest adventures in life is found in the unexpected directions that our intimate relationships take us.

Short term dating is OK mainly because it can lead to a long term connection. Sometimes it is best not to take things too seriously in the beginning, so why not enjoy that which is not serious as we travel along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am interested in permaculture, and I am developing my property, near Port Townsend, to that end.

Music is another passion, and at present it is best pursued in Seattle, of my reasons for living in the city. I write songs, and play in a band.

I am working in the field of basic biological research, which I enjoy, ...another reason for living in the city. My deepest scientific passions relate to understanding the mysteries of the physical universe.

At my core, I am a mystic, so I am continually trying to see how my mystical experience, and my intellectual understanding of the physical universe, fit together.

I am also drawn to community. I feel that community, in the sense of sharing aspects of each others lives, must be a part of realizing a sustainable future for our civilization. Community is part of the environment in which we developed as a species, and I believe that without it we are not in a good position to solve our problems.

I try to minimize my carbon footprint, and I am avoiding the ownership of a car at the moment. I may eventually be forced to buy one to use in the process of developing my property. The buses seem to work well for me at present.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chinese cooking
Writing and singing songs
Discussing the mysteries of the universe
Making and fixing things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Duke Ellington, Beatles, Punk, Goth, Bach, Debussy, Gershwin, Rogers and Hammerstein, and an eclectic assortment of others. I have been enjoying new artists that I have gleaned form other peoples profiles. Bjork and Dead can Dance are pretty cool :)

Harold and Maud, Dr. Strangelove, Avatar, Being There, The Disappearance of Finbar, Power of Myth, Star Wars, Forbidden Planet, Contact, Princess Bride, Spirited Away, Questor Tapes, The Lathe of Heaven (original PBS version), The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (original PBS version), 7 Faces of Dr Lou.

Stranger in a Strange Land, Hobbit / Lord of the RIng, Harry Potter, Shiva Sutras, Ramayana retold by Buck, The Masks of God (Joseph Campbell), Johnathan Livingston Seagull, The Upanishads, assorted mathematics, physics, permaculture, and carnivorous plants...

Chinese, Indian, Thai, Mediterranean, A good Mexican Mole
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never is a longtime 8-) So here are some things I would rather not go without in practice:

A warm bath
Trees - nature in its glory
My guitar
A microscope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The mysteries of the universe, both physical and metaphysical.
A sustainable future for mankind, and the earth.
You should message me if
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If you feel that we may grow through entangling our lives together in some way, and to some extent. If you feel we may have something to explore :) If I seem to be a potential lover.