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42 M Fletcher, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:32am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a witty, smart, funny and dynamic person. I've been told I'm sexy. I've been told I'm smart. I sometimes consider myself to be a bit of a geek. I'm a good communicator and have no problems discussing my feelings or whatever the subject of interest may be. I'm charismatic and people generally feel good when they are around me. I like to see people smile and I will go out of my way to make sure they are happy. I hate to disappoint.

I'm very outgoing and get along with all types of people. I'm young at heart, I like to party and get along well with younger people. I'm very tolerant of others ideas and try to see issues from all points of view. I also, like to be silly at times and love to laugh and make other people laugh even if it's at my own expense. Actually, I'm comfortable in most any situation.

I'm looking for an attractive, fit, fun, relaxed, cool, women, Somebody who is comfortable and confident with themselves. Likes to laugh and be silly. Likes to try new things and have a good time. I'd really like to date my best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a super dad. I work m-f as a Landscape Architect. When I leave work I go to my second job as a father of 3 wonderful boys.

In between work and parenting, I'm a homebrewer. I'm a woodworker. I'm an auto mechanic. I'm the head chef and bottle washer.

When I get a baby sitter, I'm out on the town, I'm hanging with my peeps, I'm tall dark and handsome, I'm a lover not a fighter.
I’m really good at
Being funny
Creating tasty beer
Riding bikes in the woods
Fixing stuff
Running short distances
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'm currently reading one of the Game of Thrones books. I like fiction. Michale Chabon, Dan Brown, The harry potter series. I also will read instructional books to learn how to do something. I think many things can be learned from books but it takes real world experience to own a skill.

Movies: I like action, drama and comedy. Not big on sappy chick flicks but I will sit through one if that's your thing. Because I'm a nice guy like that.

TV: I recently cancelled my TV service and now stream everything thru the internet. You can get just about any sports game on the internet for free if you know where to look. For shows I like Dexter, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, The News Room, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead etc... But I'm not always on the current season. Who has time to keep up with all these shows?

Radio/podcasts I LOVE This American Life. I listen to 88.7. World Cafe and Saturday Night House Party are good shows. I also listen to some uber geeky homebrew pod casts.

Music: I like many different types of music rock, blues, bluegrass, funk, etc... I'm always listening to music. The Black Keys are may absolute favorite, The Raconteurs, Bob Marley, Dunmpstaphunk, Zeppelin, Miles Davis, The Stones, Hendrix, Steely Dan, Michale Franti, Govt Mule, Hank III, Gillian Welsh, it goes on and on.

Food: I love spicy interesting ethnic foods. I like to cook. I like to impress a woman by cooking her a fine meal. Even better is if we can cook together. I also like to go out to eat. Love the Admiral, Mela, Bouchon, etc... I need to try some other places. Exploring a new restaurant would make a really nice date ;)
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make other people happy
How to be a better person
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking, watching a movie with the kids. Going out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't keep a lot of secrets. I'm guessing I'm supposed to put something embarrassing here.

I own a mini van. It's not my daily driver but Once you get over how uncool it is, it's a really handy vehicle.

I will cut my own hair. It's just hair. It's not brain surgery.

I've been know to wear socks and sandals. Hey it's comfy and it keeps my feet warm in the winter months.

I'm not really embarrassed by these things. I think differences are what makes people interesting. Don't be afraid to be different.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You don't have an issue with dating a dad. I'm not looking for a mother for my kids or anything like that. You just need to be comfortable around kids. You are honest and affectionate. You are looking for a friend and a lover.