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  • Ages 20–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:11pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a truth seeker, a life long learner, a gentle leader, and a dreamer. I try to be the best student at whatever it is that I am doing, meaning I like to keep an open mind, maintain passion and curiosity, and stay humble so I learn from my mistakes. That is pretty much my approach to life.

I'm a very family-oriented guy raised by a strong Mexican I am definitely not intimidated by a strong woman. I'm innovative, Macgyver-esque if you will, emotionally and intellectually intuitive, loyal to my friends, and love to push myself and others to be the best versions of themselves as possible.

What I’m doing with my life
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Working on an MA in Philosophy while teaching some intro courses. My ambition is to start my career teaching English and Philosophy classes in a community college soon. Also building my photography portfolio so I can start doing more professional gigs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to express myself through writing, and am learning to do so through photography as well. With that said, my primary love languages are words of intimacy and physical contact. I love getting to know someone on a deeper level, but not for the sake of knowing how someone "ticks." I think that sort of people analyzing comes from pride and insecurity that I have moved past. Now, I just like to get to know people on an authentic, non-judgmental level and connect with them. I think relationships can be strong and authentic now matter if you are best friends or acquaintances who just see each other every now and then. To me, it is all about how open you want to be in that moment you share with that person. Oh, and I am a big time huger.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually, it's my beard. I can count on one hand how many times I shave it per year. Women either love it or hate it.

***Currently in a stubble phase***
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Sound and the Fury, Modern American Poetry,...Also, I like Christian "self-help" (I resent this term but don't know how else to phrase it) such as Boundaries by Drs. Cloud and Townsend, and their other books like How People Grow, 12 "Christian" Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy, and Boundaries in Dating. I highly recommend these books if you are a Christian.

I also enjoy Christian Apologetics and Christian Philosophy. My favorite authors in this genre are William Lane Craig, JP Moreland, R. Scott Rae, and Paul Copan. If you have questions about Christianity, please do not hesitate to ask via OKC message.

Shows: I hardly watch T.V. except to watch college and pro football (Go Bears! and 49ers!), but my favorite show used to be The X-Files...Also loved The Wonder Years and Saved by the Bell.

Music: Crystal Castles, David Crowder Band, Matisyahu, The Black Keys, Page CXVI, Black Star, Common, Dance Gavin Dance, and more

I like "Big Picture" movies that let you get lost in worlds with their own sense of logic: Inception, Batman Returns and Batman: Dark Knight Rises, Aeon Flux (an underrated movie, although it does drag a bit through the middle), Inglorious Basterds, and more. I love discussing movies.

Food: Mexican and Italian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
iPhone 4S - is there anything that phone can't do?
Camera + Gear
Peach Iced Tea Snapple
The beauty of the 90's
Mexican hot chocolate (although I hear you get the runs if you eat those Abuelita's chocolate bisquettes raw, so be careful, as tempting as that may be.)

...also, going to the gym
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Outside of the thorny issues of philosophy and theology I wrestle with as a graduate student (a snooze-fest which I will spare you here), I think about how I can improve myself as a person by removing fear and inhibitions, and how I can be more creative. I try to notice beauty and creativity around me, from design in nature, to the way a decaying neighborhood can have its own kind of beauty. I definitely want to be with someone who can appreciate beauty and has a creative bent.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends hanging out, grabbing some drinks, enjoying conversations that sway from the deep and intellectual, to the idiosyncratic and humorous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Your mom goes to college
You should message me if
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I love talking to just about anyone who is sincere and kind, but I am most drawn to Christian women who are either into art or psychology, or both.