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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:08am
Native American, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
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Are you looking for that spark? hows that worked out thus far? I believe relationships are like novels, not pop songs. You have to get to know people through their many layers if you want to be able to appreciate them.

Honestly, I'm just looking for someone who can carry a conversation, is vibrant, takes what they do seriously but doesn't take themselves seriously, and has wit and a bit of dark humor. So hopefully I run across all two of you on here

I travel from san Jose area to sf daily, so you'll see my location change. I don't mind traveling to say, alameda or morgan hill, if you're special.

I'm from the midwest. I have impeccable manners. We may not hit it off romantically but most women I've met on here have said they were glad I was their first date from online. While you may only be in the market for a mate, I'm happy any time I can have a laugh or a substantial conversation. I realize not everyone's going to fall in love with me, and I with them. Life's too short to be too rigid. And total transparency, I am a devout atheist.

I believe in giving people respect. The benefit of the doubt. I am emotionally mature and champion communication. I don't have an ego when it comes to relationships.

I'm very straight forward and up front. I'm in no rush for anything. I'd like to find quality people to complement my life and however those relationships develop, that's how they develop. One may be romantic and the others simply dinner party buddies.

I am equal parts witty and equal part "dad jokes."

few conversation starters if you decide to message me:

How long would you last, realistically, in Jurassic park?

Men are more emotional than women and humans are designed to be monogamous, what do you say to that?

Batman is actually an inmate in Arkham Asylum and his rogues gallery are hospital staff.. Discuss..

If you could touch and feel one last thing before you lost the sensation forever, what would it be?

I also don't care if you're physically active, physically fit, or "attractive", the sexiest thing to me is a personality that can connect with mine and shines through from inside. I don't have a type and find many different women attractive in various ways. However I do have a penchant for capable confidant women.

I love learning, and have a continuous drive to fill my short life with as much knowledge as humanly possible! People are more important to me than places or things. I am much happier spending money to make others happy than on myself. I am above all else considerate and that is the single most defining characteristic I look for in others. There are two types of people in this world, considerate or inconsiderate. I'm only interested in the former.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being sincere, compassionate, and devouring knowledge.

I'm currently working at a small design firm in SF's North Beach with a kick ass view and the sweetest humans I've ever met in the bay area!

I also work in the comic book industry and operate a non profit that teaches children to think critically and build problem solving skills through story writing. My goal is to teach little humans to be self aware big humans by employing an understanding of how and why we behave as we do before reading, writing and arithmetic. Those skills don't do you any good if your quality of life is zilch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
teaching and being dependable. When I make plans I show up on time or cancel with enough time to be fair ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Post office. Hocus pocus. East of Eden. Lullaby. Hot Water Music. Ballad of Halo Jones. The Sandman. Edgar Allen poe. Short stories of H.G. Wells. H.P. Lovecraft.

I really enjoy scientific texts and studies on neuroscience. Anthropology. Medicine. Culture.

Currently reading The Beauty Myth and Brainwashed: Challenging the Myth of Black Inferiority.

music: 70s and 80s R&B. 60s british pop. Tom petty. Pulp. Alice Cooper. Moody Blues. Otis Redding. Matthew Good Band. The Tea Party. Garbage. The four tops. Ben e king. Fitz and the tantrums. Vampire weekend. Birds and bees. Arcade fire. Modest mouse.

Movies: Gremlins. Scrooged. American Psycho. Legend. Chinatown. Paths of Glory. Parenthood. Rodney Dangerfield. Blazing saddles. Michael keaton. Much ado about nothing.

TV: Elementary. Doctor Who w/matt Smith. Studio 60. The good wife. Newsroom. Madam secretary.

Intriguing subjects: child development. History. Anthropology
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My brother.
beef jerky.
Reese's cups.
somewhere to swim.
you? (See what I did there?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drawing. Playing guitar. Building something, creating something, or exploring something. I find friday a good night for hobbies that feel fulfilling.
You should message me if
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If you ever read a book in elementary school so you could get a free personal pan pizza from Pizza Hut.

you are capable of being engaging, interesting and charming.

You choose to communicate and you haven't chose to "disappear" because you didn't know what to do or say.

I'd ideally like someone who is down to watch last week tonight while cuddling up then discuss what we saw while being freaking adorable together. Who wants to go on a bike ride to the park and then enjoy a small picnic of watermelon and cashews before taking a stroll. That kind of thing, for instance.

You're a feminist