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54 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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When was the last time someone wined and dined you at a nice restaurant? Or offered to take you on a dream vacation? You're special. You deserve a confident, talented, intelligent, creative and successful man who will treat you like a princess, take you places and do everything he can to make you happy.

I'm a tall slender very open minded progressive thinking guy, looking to meet that special lady who is kind, caring and giving, who will make me smile every time I think of her.

I love animals, especially cats. I don't even kill bugs. If they invade my space, I catch them and set them free.

Entertainment, I like movies, sometimes in theaters, but more often cuddled up on my big comfy couch in front of my awesome home theater system.

Sports, I like watching the Seahawks, baseball's okay, don't like soccer. I love playing volleyball, like tennis and ping pong, badminton, and softball. I like hiking and going on walks.

My true love is doing music, and I produced a couple of hits in the 80's. I play guitar and piano and sing. Used to play lead guitar and keyboards in bands in my younger days. I'm trying to get back into doing music professionally again, but I'm enjoying just making music in my home studio. I own a video production / post production company in the adult entertainment industry with several employees and I'm semi-retired from being actively involved.

In many ways, I'm an old fashioned romantic, I get a thrill out of holding hands, and my biggest turn on is kissing. I'm looking for someone to share life with, travel, take cruises, explore.

I believe in romance. I'll always appreciate you and never take you for granted.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making it better.
I’m really good at
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My true love is doing music. I play guitar and piano and sing. Used to play lead guitar and keyboards in bands in my younger days. I may even start performing as a solo again just for the fun of it. I will serenade you on my guitar. I can play and sing a mean "Blackbird."
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my height (6'2)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite shows, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Breaking Bad, True Dectives, Taxi, Walking Dead, Sopranos, Battlestar Galactica and the black and white Andy Griffiths. Movies, Godfather, Danny Brascoe, Shawshank Redemption, League of Their Own. Music, Beatles, 60's, 70's 80's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Cats
My Guitars
Playing Volleyball
My Piano
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make this damn profile better (just kidding)
You should message me if
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You think we might have potential.