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40 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 10
Hispanic / Latin, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi. I'm mellow, creative, and not afraid of honesty and communication. I like to understand things fully and my many activities & projects reflect this. I take care of my health, treat people as I like to be treated, and appreciate where I'm at right now. I play music everyday, spend a lot of time in the ocean, and work in sound/multimedia for a living. I like to be busy but not so busy that I have to live by a calendar or a clock. I strike a good balance between work and play and sometimes those lines blur.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working on a few personal projects and enjoying the flexible time. I do freelance work in sound design, music and photography (as well as a few other things). Travel is a big part of my life and I'm always ready for the next adventure, even if that means just getting away for the weekend. I know everyone puts travel on their profile, but currently it's more important to me than a full-time job and steady paycheck.

I surf, practice yoga, and play outdoors. Guitar is my main instrument, but I noodle around on different things. Lately, I've been playing the pedal steel guitar and that's been a humbling experience. The chromatic beast. I gig with a few groups and rock out. This month has kept me busy recording and it's nice to actually be playing on the other side of the glass and not have to press buttons and twist knobs at the same time. I still like to geek out on gear. I shoot outdoors and like using quirky plastic cameras, pinholes, but also digital cameras.
I’m really good at
Being silly and smiling/laughing a lot, and making you too
Reading (paper) maps
Potty humor
Motivating you
Having a good sense of dynamics (in music & life)
Playing an instrument that happens to be around
Making things, fixin' stuff
Teaching you something
Being a portable heater in bed (especially feet)
Arm balances
Predicting the weather
Taking the high line
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to see live music and also play with a few bands
Jazz/bebop, indie post-rock, psych, shoegaze, west african guitar comps, dub, 80's, 90's, master of puppets, sweetheart of the rodeo, cero trienta y nueve, west of rome, gold star for robot boy, gram

Non-fiction lately, travel mags, tape op, afar, nat geo

I cook and eat most anything, but keep it healthy for the most part
Chilaquiles, empanadas, salads w/kimchi and cashews, stir-fry, chimichurri, platanos
Watermelon sandia patia
Breweries and vineyards
I brew beer
I make chocolate

Classics, cult, docs, foreign
Netflix TV shows occasionally
The six things I could never do without
A musical instrument
Ocean, water, swimming
Sun, heat
Space, elbow room
My mom's arepa con huevo
Family & friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything! Lots of little projects and potential big ones. How we reached this place and what lies ahead. Been trying to get outta my head and be present. Right? What's the next adventure or venture? Wind, swell, tides, the weather. Geeky I know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking beers with friends, or going to bed at a reasonable time to get up early and go for a paddle. On a road trip somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My hair is way longer than my profile pic. And more curly. And a little wild. I guess I need a new profile pic.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you... smile... a lot
are confident, a little crazy, silly
eyes say something
embrace independence
are punctual
make me fall
don't mind if I use every pot/pan in your house when I cook for you
enjoy music and occasionally rocking out (double horns)
don't mind a little (or a lot) of facial hair
get your body moving doing something you love
like being out in the sun and near the water
and don't mind beach sand everywhere... lots of sand, ahhh!
if you have a photo of the 'playa' it better be the kind that has water and waves and only goggles are on the kids playing in the water.