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davysfo

54 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:27am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Howdy. I'm a together, fun guy looking to connect with men who are happy and open emotionally. I'm in good shape physically, mentally, and spiritually, am pretty outgoing, and enjoy life. If you're comfortable and content with yourself, your life, and your sexy body, let's talk and see where it goes. Happily single and open to all possibilities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately, am excited about writing short fiction, poetry, and a blog and teaching at the meditation center I go to. I have a 3-day-a-week "regular" job at UC and also do massage and copyediting as sidelines. Live with a great roommate and a cat in a nice Victorian flat; spend most of my free time doing yoga, writing, reading, swimming, singing along to records, cleaning the house, riding my bike (no car), gardening, hanging with friends, meditating, or ironing shirts; tvless, love movies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Love, Scrabble, massage, math, grammar and spelling, '70s music and geography facts, kissing, kindness, sex with intimate connection, not looking at my phone while we're on a date, honesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm smiling and I have big ears.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything well-written, especially contemporary fiction: McCarthy, Murakami, Millhauser, Munro, Ishiguro, Chabon. Movies: Independent and quirky, for the most part, too many to list. Last great ones: Rust and Bone, Futuro Beach, Melancholia. (Wanted to love Boyhood--we'll discuss.) TV: almost never. I hear there are a lot of good shows now, just don't spend my time that way. Music: you name it. '70s soul, '80s indie, some newer stuff too...have a lot of records and actually play them. Food: spaghetti & meatballs, grilled cheese & tomato soup, pizza, Junior Mints, pork chops, burritos, chocolate milk, lemonade.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. intimacy; 2. my comfy bed (try it!); 3. the coast; 4. toothbrush; 5. public library; 6. meditation/peace of mind. Honestly, I don't get very excited about material things (or people who do).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Loved ones. Why OKCupid says I am way less love-driven and less spiritual than most people (maybe it means I'm less clingy and don't believe in god, in which case I'm fine with it). Where to travel next. Living a meaningful life. Gay men's wounding and how to heal it. Impermanence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
glad to be free, maybe having dinner with a friend or a date; or might just stay home and relax, listen to music and eat ice cream, alone or with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll talk about pretty much anything -- no secrets here. What do you want to know?
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 37–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You want to meet, you're happy, loving, and sexy, you like what you've read and like my looks or need to know more before you decide, and you think you'd make a good date, friend, fuck buddy, boyfriend, or something.