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27 Milford, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:15pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Might as well put the worst about me out there first - I'm terrible at writing first messages and making conversation, both on here and in person. My best dates with women tend to be the ones that talk maybe even a little too much :) If I look at your profile a bunch of times, I'm probably figuring out something clever to say. I'm not particularly outgoing and mostly quiet and introverted.

Now for the good stuff!

Just moved here from Austin to start an awesome new job...
if I must: I'm different-in-what-you-would-consider-to-be-fairly-awesome kind of person. I try to generally be a "nice guy", but I expect to challenge and be challenged. I frequently have my geek-ish moments, and there is a lot to appreciate in a lady that does as well. I have a weakness for intellectual debate that could yield me giving passionate speeches on critical issues like French fry condiments. Incidentally, I finally discovered an actual use of ketchup that doesn't provoke the gag reflex. But that's another story...

It's possible I might occasionally end up telling embarrassingly awful nerd-ish jokes that elicit chuckles of pity. You'll be stronger for it, I promise.

I only ask that I'm not subjected to Indian food!

Oh, I'm INTJ if you care about that.

I'm not sure women read this stuff...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a performance engineer by day. By night, I protect the citizens of Metropolis from crazed, megalomaniac villains.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
haha, please.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm mildly awkward? Haha. Idk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A girl is allowed to be crazy. As long as she is Thus if she is This crazy, she has to be This hot. If she is THIS crazy, she has to be THIS hot.

You want the girl to be above this line. Also known as the 'Vickie Mendoza Diagonal'. This girl I dated. She played jump rope with that line. She'd shave her head, then lose 10 pounds. She'd stab me with a fork, then get a boob job.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the internet
interesting, fun work
*good* bbq
money sometimes buys happiness. haha.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, or not at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I might want to "hook up" with you after 600 dates or so. I'm pretty sleezy that way. :p

I'm picky about food condiments.

I'm kinda awesome at karaoke, but you'll have to be awfully special for me to do it for you!

I often organize in a manner that other people might call extreme disorganization.

I'm a legend in Vegas. I won about $7 last time I was there.

There's more, but I forget.
You should message me if
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