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30 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 11:55am
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some facts about me:

I find joy and beauty nearly everywhere I go. When I can't find it, I try to make it. I'm interested in meeting people who do the same.

Like most people my age, I'm 30 years old.

I'm a giant (6'5"), goofy, friendly guy who seeks out the weird, random and lovely.

I try to be an ally whenever and wherever that applies. I find myself at protests regularly, frequently supporting LGBTQ, POC, and feminist (aka human) causes or opposing such things as police militarization and corporate greed.

I love bad puns, dirty jokes, and British humour.

I have eyes that change between blue, grey, and green. Oddly enough, I'm blue / grey / green colorblind, so I've never seen them the way you probably would.

I cycle for fun and transportation as much as I can. (Don't worry, I'll probably take the car if I'm picking you up for a date.)

SCUBA, snorkeling, surfing, body boarding, kayaking, and pretty much anything else you can do in salt water are sure fire ways to see me smile and relax.

I also love occasional marathons of laziness that border on the competitive. Brunch and 8 hours of sitting around with a friend watching movies on Netflix? I own that sport.

I love good strategic boardgames and the wackiness they tend to bring out in people. (Have you tried Cosmic Encounters? It's my favorite this week.)

I also enjoy video games, especially anything 16 bit or fewer and/or with a compelling story.

I have an amazing friend network that I adore.

I'm an avid reader, a film enthusiast, and an animal lover.

I fancy myself a skilled wanderer. My favorite and most memorable weekends have been when a friend or friends and I pick a direction with a very loose plan of action in mind and just see what we can find.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a non-profit as a behavioral therapist, teaching social skills and life skills to autistic children and training their parents and teachers to more effectively work with them. I work in classrooms, in clients' homes, in social skills groups, and I create and direct various camps, outdoor activities and real world activities.

I'm also partial owner of a young LLC where we create books, boardgames, and learning materials for kids on the autistic spectrum. I've written two children's books to date, which are in the process of being illustrated.

I am passionate about my work, and I absolutely love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stopping absolutely everything in my life to play with puppies.

Finding opportunities to step outside of my (fairly large) comfort zone to try new shit.

Finding creative solutions to difficult problems.
Driving (in L.A. that makes me a minority.)
Carpentry, construction, and destruction.
Moving heavy objects.
Horse back riding.
Standardized tests (not as useful as an adult).
Making goofy faces at babies.
Pub trivia.
Active listening.
Cooking without a cook book.
Mixing drinks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really tall. I quite literally stick out of most crowds. It makes for a difficult life. I'll never be a professional jockey, and though I love wandering in caves, I'll never make it in the competitive world of spelunking. I'll just have to settle for getting objects off of high shelves.
Le sigh.

People also notice that I smile a lot, laugh a lot, and am a very active listener (it is a dying craft).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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It's okay to skip this section. It's loooong. And yet it's still just a random sampling and some highlights. I like a lot of things.
All of Pratchett
All of Gaiman
All of Saffron Foer
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander series
Piers Anthony, Pale Horse series
All of Ambrose Bierce
All of Twain (try Puddinhead Wilson sometime if you've never)
Last Chance to See (Douglas Addams doing Non-Fiction!)
The rest of Douglas Addams
Dan Savage (totally GGG)
To Kill a Mockingbird
Animal Farm
The Time Traveler's Wife
All of Potter
The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat
The Iliad
The Lorax
Life of Pi
The Time Traveler's Wife
Three Men in a Boat, to Say Nothing of the Dog
And about a billion others...

Singing in the Rain
Die Hard (1,3,4,2...............5)
Thin Man (1,3,2.........4,5)
When Harry Met Sally
O Brother, Where Art Though
The Avengers
City of God
Cabin in the Woods
Mean Girls
Forgetting Sarah Marshall
Arsenic and Old Lace
Hot Fuzz
Shaun of the Dead
It Happened One Night
Wet Hot American Summer
Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Most apocalyptic scenario flicks, because I like to imagine what I could do better.

Dr. Horrible's sing along blog
(Joss fans will likely notice a trend here)
Dr. Who
30 Rock
Walking Dead
Parks and Rec
That Mitchell and Webb Look
The Inbetweeners (U.K. version)
Arrested Development

Music: (Easier to go by genre)
Classic Rock (think Dean in Supernatural)
80's. (All)
Funny stuff. Flight of the Conchords, JoCo, etc.
80's and 90's Disney. Yes, I'm a big man that sings Disney. Judge away. It's fuckin' awesome.
Rock-a-billy, big band and swing
Classical, cello pieces in particular

I'm pescatarian, but I swear I'm not a Nazi about it. I don't preach, and I couldn't care less what the people around me eat. That said:
Breakfast foods (think diner in the middle of nowhere)
Super Spicy- melt your face off and burn holes straight through your soles- foods of any sort
And most everything else. I'll try anything twice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Friends
A good skillet
Sex / passion
Literature (I know this is a cop-out answer, but what do you expect?)
My bike
Challenging authority (particularly regarding lists of pre-determined lengths)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
George Washington Carver.
What's at the bottom of the ocean.
The most efficient way to do things.
Complex Rube Goldberg devices to make life more interesting.
Oxford Commas.
Future travels and adventures.
The number of kinds of privelage I benefit from (at least 5, probably more) and how I can change society to make that less true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing stuff. This is a silly question, there's a lot to do! Want to find out what? Message me and I'll bring you along.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a kilt, and I'm not afraid to wear it.

I'm afraid of dolls, especially porcelain dolls, puppets, and dummies. Not scream and throw stuff scared, but they definitely unnerve me. There's a story here, feel free to ask. If you are a ventriloquist, I'm sorry, but it's probably not going to work out between us.

I also collect antique board games and historical atlases. Sexy, I know.
You should message me if
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You feel like it. Don't wait for me to message you. There's a lot of people on here, I might not find you!

You like weird.
You are a joyful person who finds positivity in the world.
You are nice to waiters and doormen.
You're passionate about something, anything.
You have a passport and aren't afraid to use it.
You don't talk on your cell while checking out at the market.
You laughed once or twice while reading about me.
You don't buy into the media's portrayal of giants as simple-minded, cannibalistic oafs (it's a conspiracy going back centuries).

You want to know more about George Washington Carver, American hero. Seriously. I can talk about him for days, that guy saved us all.
Even if you're not interested in me at all, you should go learn about G-Dubs-C.