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dbinfl

60 M Saint Petersburg, FL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:46pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for someone with these qualities: smart, curious about and aware of the world and current events, interesting, well-read, has a good sense of humor, is sensual and enjoys physical intimacy, is kind and considerate, but also a little edgy and sassy. Someone who enjoys being alone (with me) or in small intimate gatherings of friends, and who likes travel, theater and the arts. Someone I can show a New Yorker cartoon to and have a good laugh about. Someone who likes the comics and animals and natural things. A woman who thinks intelligent conversation is as enjoyable (or more so) as a night on the town. Someone who is not mean or rude or inconsiderate, but at the same time is not a prude; you like and appreciate an off-color joke, a well-played double entendre, a sensuous movie. You enjoy sharing a little (not mean) sarcasm; you are capable of and enjoy witty give-and-take. You can be irreverent, opinionated without being judgmental, and strong-willed. A woman who is comfortable with a natural and lightly adorned look. You are socially liberal, tolerant and open-minded -- a little off the mainstream but not radically so. If you have the TV on selectively and infrequently, and are more likely to be reading something, then this is a big plus to me.

On the practical side, I'm looking for someone who is financially stable and independent, and ideally within about 20 miles of St. Petersburg.

I've been described by a woman friend as a "girl guy, not a guy guy". I like the company of women (and not only as lovers). If that suits you, then we should talk. If you're looking for a macho man, I am not your guy. I don't have a grill, a truck, a power boat (I have had sailboats), or a motorcycle. A hammer has too many moving parts. Watching or attending sporting events doesn't generally interest me. (However, there is one area of the male skill set where I think I am more than competent. Just sayin'...) At the same time, I am not Marvin Milquetoast; I'm not a prude, and not averse to a well-placed curse word. I like music that gets up and jumps on you (but melodically). I like dark movies and a ribald joke. I prefer reading over television. I can be excitable and passionate about things I care about. I can be an excitable boy.

I have a 28-year old son who is smart as a whip, caring and compassionate, funny as hell, and who I think the world of. Love my boy...indeed I do.

I like reading online (lots of current events stuff, NY Times, The Guardian, Slate), novels, or historical non-fiction, or books/magazines (fiction, biographies, The New Yorker - I'm a subscriber), gardening, and watching weird movies. It's interesting; I think I'm a happy kinda guy, but my Netflix queue is pretty much all dark art house/ indie/ foreign movies.

I am interested in friends, casual dating, and general hangouts with like-minded people. I am also seriously interested in a long-term relationship. I'm happy to engage with anyone who might fit in any of those general categories.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring stuff out. Hey, I'm an engineer, what can I say?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Heck, I don't know. The only thing that comes to mind is 'hey, you look like -- pick one -- Scott Glenn, Jon Voight, Gregg Allman. Just reporting what they tell me folks, can't say I look at all like any of those people (well, maybe Scott Glenn a little).

PS, someone added Clint Eastwood to this list recently. Ouch!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is central to my life; I have something on pretty much all the time when I'm home. Pandora has a Quick Mix thing that allows me to listen to equal parts blues, rock 'n roll, punk, blues, bluegrass, older country , blues, Irish/Celtic, afro beat, Motown, alt country, southern rock, blues. Yeah, big fan of the blues.

Favorite bands: The Clash (I have a tag somewhere "no1clashfan"), U2, Zeppelin, Allman Brothers and R.E.M. And did I mention I love the blues? I do; its true. And so you know, some bands that annoy me pretty much - The Beatles (gasp!), The Eagles, most all the wimpy CSN/CSNY stuff (can't hit the FF button fast enough when Guinevere comes on). As a rule, I like some edge or drive or bounce to my music. I hate Rap, and, I'm sorry, don't care for jazz (rare exceptions).

Favorite classical styles / composers: Love the Romantic era; Beethoven hung the moon in my book. Also like Brahms, Dvorak, Tchaikovsky.

I'm a big fan of the odd / off the wall / indie movie.
Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Dogtooth, Hukkle, Clerks, This is Spinal Tap, Delicatessen, Being John Malkovich, Beetlejuice, anything the Coen brothers did (except Hudsucker Proxy - sorry guys, that movie SUCKED). In the more (sorta) mainstream category -- Blazing Saddles, The Breakfast Club, Goodfellas, Requiem for a Dream, The Meaning of Life, Forrest Gump, Dr. Stangelove, Pulp Fiction.

Don't have cable/TV, so what shows I do watch are via Netflix - Breaking Bad, Mad Men, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, and maybe the cleverest show ever - Arrested Development. (Big shout-out to my son for convincing me to check it out).

Books: Huckleberry Finn, Lord of the Rings, Macroscope (Piers Anthony), Dune, Shogun, pretty much all of Robert Heinlein, Kurt Vonnegut, and Philip K. Dick's works. Most any good biography of American historical figures or books on American or European history.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- The love of a good woman. It's why I'm here!
- Something to read. Something, anything. NYTimes, New Yorker, non-fiction, product inserts, garment labels - whatever. Got to have something to read.
- Music (yeah, the blues if nothing else - see above)
- A cat
- I have to say coffee and beer as one thing; they're the yin and yang of my stimulant/intoxicant world. And I mean good coffee and good beer, or else I can do without.
- The comics. Not all the comics, just the entree comics (Garfield, Get Fuzzy, Baby Blues, Lio, etc.) and the dessert comics (Doonesbury, Dilbert, Pearls Before Swine). And you can take Family Circus to the deepest depths of hell and leave it there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Leaving this alone for now...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Everybody thinks this is a silly question. So do I.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating