When I'm not or working (or working out), I'm usually with friends, family or at home relaxing. Teaching my dog to cuddle (she's soft and fluffy but the worst cuddler) while gaming, reading, or watching something is usually how I get my relaxation fix in. I'm pretty passionate about food, too. Trying a new recipe or technique or perfecting an old one can make my day, just like finding a great dish on a night out. Picking out places to travel is always exciting; just got back from taking mom to Europe and I loved it.
Understanding people and making them smile are huge passions in my life. Smiles feed me and laughs sustain me. If I can crack a smile on someone's face, particularly someone that I'm close to and care about, I'm going to be a happy, happy man. Enneagram type 9 says a lot about me.
Smiling, laughing, teaching me something I don't know, teaching me something I don't know that I don't know, competitiveness, and confidence are a few of my turn-ons. I'm sure there are more. Hopefully you can show me a few new ones, too. :)