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57 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–63
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:11am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When you're really into someone, you find yourself more flexible and passionate than you thought you might be. Read on, if you will, and decide if I could be good for you. I'm a good guy who is sometimes bad, and a bad guy sometimes good straight up and down. I'm a thief here to steal your heart, and treasure it always. I want my last one and only. More? Arrgh. I'm 6', 187 lbs, and not ugly, yet warm, positive, curious, and fun. Some call me funny. Ivy educated, well traveled, well employed, and enjoying work and play. I hang my hat on Manhattan's UWS.

I love everything that has to do with the water.

You'll find me on the slopes, on or under the water, in a museum, walking a trail, listening to music - most any kind except hip-hop or rap, working on a computer, fixing something (the Chinese say I have smart hands), cooking (I love to cook and enjoy dinner parties)...

Though, born in France - no not French - rather progeny of career Army family. I was raised in the South East(US), spent high school in Izmir. Traveled most of Europe, Asia(China a lot; Japan some), and Pakistan, as an adult, and lived in an Ashram in '92. For me, these days, travel is less about touring as it is the people, their food, and friends, or just a good trek. I've never been to the southern hemisphere. Is Australia, a continent? Excuse me while I ask my 5th grader.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Securing the future. Pushing boundaries. Having fun. Being the best Dad I can. If you're thinking, "Devoted Dads have no room for romantic relationships." let me share my Grandfather's words; "The more love you give, the more you have to give." I do have room for you. Raising a kid, adds too, rather than takes away. I'm not seeking a Mom for my daughter. She has one. This balanced, accommodatingly adaptive kid is with me Wednesdays, and every other weekend.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing broke stuff. And mixing it up in the kitchen. Finding humor. And laughing at it. Not much beats a good laughing smile. If I contact you, it'll be mostly, well firstly, because I like your smile, then your smarts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Instructional design or some truly new thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking about instructional design. Avoiding OkC meetings. Help me change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat with my mouth closed.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have smarts, smiles, sweats, are sweet-n-sour, soft and spicy, something more than the average bear.

If you think I can be the man who gets you, and have the patience to find out please know that my approach to this site is often one of indifference. Which is ironic in a way. I'm truly only interested in finding my last one and only. Take action if I've not contacted you recently. We started our conversation for a reason. The volume on OkC is formidable.

You're, not embarrassed to dance around the house, or not enough to let that stop you.

Important goals and values you hold might include; family ties, learning, spirtuality(not religion), fitness, sharing, spending time with children. Well one, occasionally. I'm totally committed to my 10 year old daughter.

And, if I may, just one more thing. No narcissist please or princess or goddess of any kind our connection is doubtful, but then again, if you've endured my note this far we're good.
- David