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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 39-63
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:55am
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some have said, I'm youthfully playful, smart, and confident. I'll take that. I want to rock your gypsy soul. So you're going to have to want to like that. If you want to be yourself with me pick me. Be curious, kind, open, and coming to me. My arms will never, never deny you. Are you huggable?

Don't expect it to be drama free. Life is spicy. I want to know those who experience it. Share it. Tell it. Tell yourself that, as if you were, listening to Arthur Adams or Solomon Burke, and tell me - if you hear me. Van Morrison, into the mystic, too.

I'm liable to do something spontaneous, and want you to go along. And I'll love it if you ask me to find you in Chelsea. Yes I might even bring homemade Vietnamese Spring rolls to our first meet, if the stars align.

Is your antenna set to *intergalactic technological virtual cherry bomb kisses*? 1234 Bang a gong. T Rex serving it up. You'er dirty sweet and you'er my girl. Feminine women suit me best. Prepare to be spoiled, and ruined, and brought back home every time. I want it intimate, romantic, and passionate whatever "it" is you and I have together. I'm not a dick nor a clodpole. My Mom raised me way better than that. Did I mention I was from SC, rural raised? If not. I'll get to it.

I'm gonna be honest here, y'all. Where do you think your part fits in this scenario so far? No one's told me their answer. I asked it a couple of months ago. I did lots of other fun chats hugs and kisses though. Thank you - whoops I almost kissed and told... You were that one. Thank you for that. I don't do that often.

You won't find me on the slopes anymore. I hurt my knee and I'm out for the seasons. I'm willing to risk water skiing though. I'm going up to the hills nevertheless; flowers, skies, country views awaiting creeks, rock trails cached. I'm not the only one around me blasting lights shimmering glistens sparked snow and wind of my face looking up to that still blue sky over yummy green evergreens. The pine frozen needles still smelling sweet as they drip melt in your wind. Who's keeping up with who?

I'm not doing much sailing either. Melbourne Marina got wiped out in 2005. Damn. What am I doing? Wasting time here. The Hudson is an absolute horror to sail. I'm more wanting to rig it up for sailing by the lee trailing a hand in the wake; dolphins riding the bow kind of guy. Sail me by the lee sweet one.

I'm not French either. Just born there. Southern instead. Raised up around the palmettos in the '60-.70s. If you know what that's like or got something close to your heart that you want me to know come on over here and let me cook for you while you tell me all about it.

I did some things our time together, over time, will tell; raced demolition derby, dived the Aegean in high school, and played the clarinet in the band; sat with swami in college; built power plants around the world in the '80 and '90s, touched the Guru's hand, trained a thousand teachers in three cities in China in four days. 2005 was a rocking year. I've eaten suckling pig in Segovia, uni in Tokyo, bratwurst sitting in a barrel in Germany, prayed in Istanbul.

Now I want to love in New York City.

It was my grandfather preacher saint who owned the junk yard dog I grew up around in rural Carolina. Any Tiger fans out there? Another truth? I don't give a hoots toot about watching TV sports much. Even though figure skating, skiing, and women's tennis does hold its appeal.

Do you play? Let's go sweat.

Yes, I went to Columbia. A life long dream fulfilled, but none of this and none of that mean a dog blame without someone to get into it with.

I want that someone soon, and get off OkC. Show me u, please.
- David
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Securing the future. Pushing boundaries. Having fun. Being the best Dad I can. If you're thinking, "Devoted Dads have no room for romantic relationships." let me share my Grandfather's words; "The more love you give, the more you have to give." I do have room for you. Raising a kid, adds too, rather than takes away. My well-balanced, studious, accommodatingly adaptive kid is with me Wednesdays, and every other weekend. I wish it were more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing broke stuff. And mixing it up in the kitchen. Finding humor. And laughing at it. Not much beats a good laughing smile. If I contact you, it'll be mostly, well firstly, because I like your smile, then your smarts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Instructional design or some truly new thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking about instructional design. Avoiding OkC meetings. Help me change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat with my mouth closed.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have smarts, smiles, sweats, are sweet-n-sour, soft and spicy, something more than the average bear.

If you think I can be the man who gets you, and have the patience to find out please know that my approach to this site is often one of indifference. Which is ironic in a way. I'm truly only interested in finding my last one and only. Take action if I've not contacted you recently. We started our conversation for a reason. The volume on OkC is formidable.

You're, not embarrassed to dance around the house, or not enough to let that stop you.

Important goals and values you hold might include; family ties, learning, spirituality (not religion), fitness, sharing, spending time with children. Well one, occasionally. I'm totally committed to my 11 year old daughter.

And, if I may, just one more thing. No narcissists please or princess or goddess of any kind - Princess Merida excluded - our connection is doubtful, but then again, if you've endured my note this thus far we're good. Yeah?
- David