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32 Arlington, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:17pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 32 year old lawyer working on the Hill during the day, doing some volunteering in the evenings, relaxing and/or having fun with my friends on the weekends, and getting creative and enjoying the DC Burner community whenever I can.

I'm an INFJ, so apparently that passion is a natural part of my personality -- as is the frequent conflict between my outgoing nature and introvert tendencies.

I'm trying to spend more time cooking at home and working out. It would be great to find someone to do this with.

I'm really open minded but I also know what I want and what I need. I want someone who is a good communicator, honest, and open. I need someone who can listen, who cares and will put effort into knowing and being with me. I am busy, but I always make time for the things I want. I need someone who will do the same for me.

I tend to be type-A in my work and volunteer life, so I'm looking for someone to take the lead in my romantic life. I like to be pursued and I hate having to question where things stand. I'm looking for an assertive but chivalrous partner to pair with my modern, non-traditional style.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just started my dream job on the Hill working on criminal justice reform and other crime and judicial issues. The days are pretty long and really intense. So the fact that I love what I'm working on, and every day I wake up knowing that I am making (or working to make) a difference, makes it all bearable. I'm learning that balance is hard to achieve. Right now I am trying to make it a priority.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving, organizing (people, places, for causes, pretty much anything), making fantastic tutus, and getting glitter everywhere.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books: Killer Angels, Walking in the Wind, books on Elizabethean England, Opening Up, and Chelsea Handler's hilarious works.

Favorite Movies: Cruel Intentions, The Secret Garden, Great Expectations, Dogma, Elizabeth, American Beauty, Kiss the Girls.

Favorite Music: Pretty much everything, even some country!

TV Shows: So I pretty much only watch tv from my DVR ... and it totally supports my addiction, including Game of Thrones, Masters of Sex, The Voice, NCIS, CSI: Las Vegas, Grey's Anatomy, Law and Order: SVU, Elementary, Person of Interest, White Collar, Castle, Once Upon A Time, Scandal, HTGAWM, Downton Abbey, The Good Wife, Madame Secretary, SYTYCD, Pretty Little Liars, Modern Family, Grimm, The Mindy Project, The New Girl, Chicago Fire, Chicago PD, Hart of Dixie, Reign, Covert Affairs, Suits .... ok, that list is a little long ... I blame it on my DVR!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - My Best Friend
2 - Caffeine in the espresso or coffee form
3 - My iphone
4 - Music
5 - Massages
6 - My bed - it is insanely comfy!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world, policy, law, rights, creativity, costumes, and people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the week - a long week means dinner in or with a friend then a relaxing night in. If not such a long week, then maybe out and about. Friday is definitely my relaxation night and Saturday is my party night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I regularly look up spoilers for shows and movies because I'm really impatient and don't want to wait to see how things turn out. Also, I am a lifelong dog person who happens to have a (quite small) cat.
You should message me if
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You aren't intimidated by the fact that I'm bi or that I don't drink (I could care less if you do -- my bar is one of my favorite pieces of furniture and I love entertaining). Or you understand how I can be a dog person and yet own a cat. Or you get the reference to Burners and appreciate the nuances in what I'm looking for in a relationship (which is what I am looking for -- not interested in a hookup situation or couples).

You should definitely message me if you are confident, assertive, and will treat me like the princess and lady that I am. And if you made it to the end of this profile .... and you're not going to spend weeks emailing back and forth before asking me on a date.

Disclaimer -- I can take a while to write back to a message even if I find you interesting. Often I check this thing before I go to sleep or on the metro, and am either too tired or busy to send a real reply. So if you see that I've looked at your profile and haven't replied, it may just be that I haven't replied yet. And if I have replied, it's best to ask me out sooner rather than later because I can take a while to respond. That all being said, the quickest way to get me to decide NOT to respond is by sending multiple messages in a row before I've even sent one or sending a second message that criticizes my lack of response to the first. I know, you would think this is common sense, but ...