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ddrorangeman
21 / M / straight / Single
Villa Ridge, Missouri
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 6' 2" (1.87m).
- Body Type
- Thin
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Rarely
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Atheism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Aries but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Working on college/university
- Job
- Student
- Income
- Less than $20,000
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Owns dogs and Owns cats
- Languages
- English
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am Intelligent, Honest, and a Good Listener.
My Self-Summary
So, in a nutshell, I’m an artistic, music-addicted, computer geek that likes expressing his emotions. I'm more than that, but that should hold the people over who have no interest in reading the rest of this.
Now for the long version.
I love to listen to music. I love any kind at all, except for the new-age country stuff. I PREFER to listen to punk, techno, pop, and rock. I am currently in love with my Zune Player.
I have very recently gotten into photography. I've always had trouble holding that damn camera still, but I’m working on it. Also working on some fractoral art. If you ask me about it, would be happy to show you some of my work.
I'm going to College for gen education courses now, but will be going for Marketing. However, it seems like something I’m just naturally good at more than something I truly enjoy doing. I'm not saying I don't enjoy tinkering with the in's and outs of a business, but i prefer having an artistic mind. (hard to make a living off that, though)
I'm kind of a computer geek. Scratch that, I'm REALLY a computer geek. I spend a lot of time on my computer, but it's mostly to check forums on people I’m talking with, IM'ing people, Uploading my artwork, looking at other's artwork, facebook, or find a new program. Yeah, I’m a computer geek, but at least I’m a social computer geek.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m really good at
*Managing people/ Organizing an event
*Fractals, a form of art i picked up a while ago
*Computers, both software and hardware. I get all excited fixing stuff
*Writing, in my personal opinion. I enjoy making stories from time to time.
*Stick Juggling, one of the various things i picked up along the way.
*Remembering the useless facts that often end up having a use later
The first things people usually notice about me
I also think that i give off a very outgoing vibe, or i look like the party-going type. However, i am the exact opposite of that, and rarely attend parties, but if i do, i prefer it to be a social get together, not a college kegger. In front of people I know, i am very talkative, and will often be the person to forge new ground, but when talking to someone new, i often am often much more a listener.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I'm really a music junkie, so I will forgo listing all my favorite artists. If you want to really know them, i can give you the whole crazy over 100 artist list, but you simply need to know i lean more toward dance, techno, classic rock, or any song with a sort of "hidden" meaning to it. I enjoy being upbeat when i listen to music, and most of those genres reflect that.
My list of favorite movies is probably about as long as my list of music, but I enjoy anything that isn't cliché . I will actually sit down and enjoy a romantic comedy as long as it isn't the same story I've seen a million times. I think that romantic movies often just give women and men a "proper" way to go about loving a person, when there really is no proper way. Of course, i'm still a guy, so i like action movies as well. I LOVE to laugh, so a comedy movie will be fun. I can enjoy everything from sophisticated political humor, to fart jokes. In my opinion, a joke is not bad if it makes people laugh.
Sadly, i am not much of a book reader, but this doesn't mean that i don't enjoy reading from time to time. I would much rather read about some fascinating new news study, or something practical i could apply to my life. Just the other day i was reading some interesting articles that caught my eye, and really made me reconsider my view on the world. I love learning, and love stories, but i guess i use my computer more to read than a book
As far as food goes, i enjoy a variety of things. I used to not be into spicy/ hot food, but i'm slowly getting a taste for it again. I truely will eat anything put in front of me (once again, try everything once!). I would often enjoy a home-cooked meal much more than dining out, if only because it's usually healthier. I'm not a heath nut by any means, but if you've looked at what a sit-down restaurant's nutrition facts are, it makes Burger King look like diet food. Still, no known food allergies, so i'll try it all.
The six things I could never do without
2.My Zune. Basically an Ipod, i carry this around with me everywhere, and often have it in my pocket. I have the sort of mind that constantly needs to be entertained/ working, and it helps me with that.
3. My Brain. It might sound funny, but I value an intelligent person highly. Having something happen to my mind, or losing mental capacity would probably devastate me greatly
4. My friends. I have a lot of online friends i socialize with, and confide with. However, i still have a few real life friends that i hang out with from time to time, but it's true that people seem to grow apart after school. I've changed schools so many times it's hard to keep friends.
5.Sexual enjoyment. Yes, i know it's something that might label me as someone you don't want to meet, but i believe i should be up front about it. I believe it is a fun way to get to know someone better, but i must emphasize that while i have no qualms talking about it, i am very nervous with the actual act (look under the "Most private thing i'm willing to admit here" to see why). I want to hold off on physical relations at the Beginning. I believe it takes a lot of trust to take it to that level, and it's not something you can feel immediately, or know right away.
6. Um.. not sure what to put here, i'll find something later.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How to fix whatever problems that come my way
-Questioning the validity of the knowledge i get. A lot of people accept everything they get as fact, with little regard to how they came to that conclusion
-Philosophical subjects
-Psychology (broad, i know, but it really interests me)
On a typical Friday night I am
Most times i'll be at home watching tv, talking with people on my computer, occasionally playing video games, and playing with my cats and rabbits. other than that, i sometimes will be working on homework.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
First off, i still live with my parents at 21. My excuse that i am saving money, but i think part of me is still a tad unmotivated to get out there. That is probably my one weakness, and i am trying to overcome it.
Secondly, I am a virgin. I'm not prudish in anyway, but i only want someone who i'm close with. I think i'll know them when i see it.I think that since i am not always outspoken, or wanting to go to a huge social event that i never got an opportunity to meet someone special. I also am rather shy and NEVER have been able to gauge if someone likes me as a friend, or a partner, and am terribly nervous about having the talk that i really love someone, or making that leap of faith to take it to the next level. It's just an in person thing, though, not a failure to want to commit, i assure you.
Thirdly, (and it will probably confound you with the aforementioned private thing), i am very much a sexual deviant. I enjoy a wide variety of topics that might offend some people, but i think that many people would enjoy them if they gave it a chance. However, i am not going to spill the beans about THAT part of me, so you'll just have to message me to know more.
You should message me if
-Someone who is willing to change their views, and realizes that our interpretation of life has to constantly change, as well as our ideas. My views on a particular topic can be back and forth, and I can play devil’s advocate to anything, really.
-Someone around my age (21). Older is fine, and I’m not getting on 18 year olds but many still have a high-school mentality. I prefer a mature mind.
-Someone who is not highly religious. I am have my perceptions of right or wrong, but I’m not overly religious/ attend church very often at all
-I talk about sexual topics all of the time. NOT always in a personal nature, but human sexuality is something that has me entranced and fascinated. It's not really surprising since I’m young and interested in how people interact with each other, and with my interest in psychology, it really is something i enjoy. I guess I just got tired of hearing what other people thought, and decided i should educate myself before i make decisions. I'm open with this side of myself, and its okay if you are not, but I hope over time we could open up to each other.
On a final note, please don't think of this as a list of things where you must adhere to completely. I am willing to change a little, and if you find anything interesting, i would really appreciate getting to know you better.