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  • Ages 25-49
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  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jun 3
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5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a late-forties gay male in downtown Toronto, working in media
and writing for a living. (Yes, it can be done!) I'm partnered with
OKC member chris_writes...he's poly, I'm not. To
quote Facebook, it's complicated.

I am creative, curious, and thoughtful.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides my day job, I have been writing for theatre, film, television, radio and other media for more than twenty years. I like horror movies. Festival and independent films. Video and computer games. World events. Theatre. Arts and culture. Certain obsession-worthy television programs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making things, asking questions, giving opinions, shutting up and listening, helping people, teaching people, standing up for what's right.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My glasses. My tattoo. My handknit socks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
From My Facebook Profile (so a bit dated):

Books: The list is way too long. I'm currently reading John Dies at the End, The Thirteenth Tale, Angelica, IT, The Seance, and a few other random things. And I love Mason-Dixon Knitting..

Movies: Asian Horror Movies: Ringu, Audition, Shutter, The Eye, Dumplings, Pulse, Cure, Tale of Two Sisters.

Other Horror Movies: Inside, The Descent, Ginger Snaps, 28 Days Later, 28 Weeks Later, Blair Witch Project (don't bug me), Hostel, Hostel 2, Shaun of the Dead, Ravenous, Severance, 28 Weeks Later.

Horror Classics: Night of the Living Dead, Dawn of the Dead (first one only, sorry), Black Christmas (first one only, sorry), Halloween, Texas Chainsaw Massacre (first one only, sorry), Reanimator, Evil Dead, Eraserhead, Return of the Living Dead. Deep Red/ Suspiria/ Inferno/ Tenebrae/ Phenomena. The Devil Rides Out. The Val Lewton/Jacques Tourneur films.

Foreign & independent films: The Best of Youth, Hedwig & The Angry Inch, Kal Ho Naa Ho, Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham, Battle Royale, Thesis, The Devil's Backbone, Ichi the Killer, Shortbus, Pan's Labyrinth.

Other favourites: There are about a hundred. I'll get back to you..

TV Shows: Battlestar: Galactica. The original Ju-On (The Grudge) series. The League of Gentlemen. Arrested Development. Ugly Betty. America's Next Top Model. Nighty Night. Sometimes CSI and sometimes ER. Lately, Summer Heights High and Mad Men.

The first season of Desperate Housewives. The last ten minutes of Six Feet Under..

Music: Kiki & Herb.

Female singer-songwriters: Regina Spektor, Usra Leedham, Natalie Imbruglia, Imogen Heap, Cat Power, and more...

Dance/trance/ambient music: Chicane, Rubberlegs, Massive Attack, Rihanna (used to hate her, but I love SOS) and more...

Aggressive rock/metal/punk: Patti Smith. Suicide (Frankie Teardrop, anyone?). Dalbello. Nirvana. Husker Du. The Clash. Motorhead. Nine Inch Nails. Pink. A little Marilyn Manson goes a long way...

Everything else: Magnetic Fields. The Geraldine Fibbers. Belle & Sebastian. Radiohead. Bran Van 3000. And still more....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, food, music, lively conversation, solitude, the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to get out of this mess we're in.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from the five previous days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cannot drive vehicles in videogames. Seriously, I crashed my horse in Red Dead Redemption. My *horse*.
You should message me if
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you think we should have some fun together.