Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


58 M Ellicott City, MD

My Details

Last Online
Jun 4
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
I am a widower coming off a 30 year marriage to a wonderful woman. I am looking to begin again and am slowly trying to create something new. I would like to find someone to have some fun with...... dinner, attend sporting events ( Ravens season ticket holder and love the Orioles too) cook for, share wine with and grow with. From there we will see how it evolves. You never know. I only ask that you be willing to be patient as I journey through this new phase in my life. Let's have a glass of wine or a margarita or a shot or........

NOTE: Age honesty is very important. Lying about that says a lot about who you are, and sure would make trust difficult in a relationship. I turned 57 on 2/21. I understand the age pressure us men impose on women, believe me I do, and I applaud those that stand up in the face of it.

NOTE 2: I've had multiple women tell me I am much more attractive than my photos. I don't know, but it's very kind and I'm sure my Mom would agree. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am a parent ( 2 wonderful daughters- 20,26), a golfer ( not good)a wine drinker ( damn good at that) and a laugher... I am kind, humorous, sensitive, bright, quite financially secure, sometimes outrageous, liberal, a pretty decent writer, an excellent verbal communicator and open minded. And well, I'm just a goof.
I’m really good at
Communication ,my job, affection, cooking, making people laugh, telling a good story, being interestingly outrageous. And I was really really good at being a husband....really good. I'd love to do it again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- Freakonomics, Catcher in the Rye, Ball Four, Predictably Irrational
Movies- The Big Lebowski( all the Coen bros stuff, actually), Hitchcock films, Ghandi, Vacation, The Graduate, My Cousin Vinny, sappy old stuff like beach movies
Music- Wilco, the Beatles, NRBQ, My Morning Jacket, XTC, Beck, Elvis Costello, Ben Harper,Citizen Cope,Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes, The Clash, Delta Spirit, OK Go, New Pornographers, old soul music and more
TV-Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show, Conan, VEEP, Leave it to Beaver, Oriole games, Seinfeld,Get Smart.....
The six things I could never do without
Great food
The love of a woman
stupidly outrageous laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why friends say I am endearingly similar to Larry David. That's a good thing...right?
On a typical Friday night I am
At happy hour, then drinking wine and cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a horrible handyman. I write checks to the handyman.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to have a casual dinner or just a drink, play golf or attend a ballgame...or maybe just be silly for a while