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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49-54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 4, 2014
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a widower coming off a 30 year marriage to a wonderful woman. I am looking to begin again and am slowly trying to create something new. I would like to find someone to have some fun with...... dinner, attend sporting events ( Ravens season ticket holder and love the Orioles too) cook for, share wine with and grow with. From there we will see how it evolves. You never know. I only ask that you be willing to be patient as I journey through this new phase in my life. Let's have a glass of wine or a margarita or a shot or........

NOTE: Age honesty is very important. Lying about that says a lot about who you are, and sure would make trust difficult in a relationship. I turned 57 on 2/21. I understand the age pressure us men impose on women, believe me I do, and I applaud those that stand up in the face of it.

NOTE 2: I've had multiple women tell me I am much more attractive than my photos. I don't know, but it's very kind and I'm sure my Mom would agree. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a parent ( 2 wonderful daughters- 20,26), a golfer ( not good)a wine drinker ( damn good at that) and a laugher... I am kind, humorous, sensitive, bright, quite financially secure, sometimes outrageous, liberal, a pretty decent writer, an excellent verbal communicator and open minded. And well, I'm just a goof.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication ,my job, affection, cooking, making people laugh, telling a good story, being interestingly outrageous. And I was really really good at being a husband....really good. I'd love to do it again.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am properly immature.:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Freakonomics, Catcher in the Rye, Ball Four, Predictably Irrational
Movies- The Big Lebowski( all the Coen bros stuff, actually), Hitchcock films, Ghandi, Vacation, The Graduate, My Cousin Vinny, sappy old stuff like beach movies
Music- Wilco, the Beatles, NRBQ, My Morning Jacket, XTC, Beck, Elvis Costello, Ben Harper,Citizen Cope,Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeroes, The Clash, Delta Spirit, OK Go, New Pornographers, old soul music and more
TV-Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show, Conan, VEEP, Leave it to Beaver, Oriole games, Seinfeld,Get Smart.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great food
The love of a woman
stupidly outrageous laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why friends say I am endearingly similar to Larry David. That's a good thing...right?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At happy hour, then drinking wine and cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a horrible handyman. I write checks to the handyman.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to have a casual dinner or just a drink, play golf or attend a ballgame...or maybe just be silly for a while