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deadletter

39 Portland, OR Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:41pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Married
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Speaks
English, French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is fantastic! I hope that yours is too. Let's make some art!

A little busy right now - working weekly to host the local Bernie Sanders volunteer group and we have a new dog... Looking individually for other creatives, looking together for couples to hang out with together. We could use new social circles to run in.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This fall:

Dissertation Proposal
Bernie Sanders Campaign

Always: Working on Pirate Mail!

Pirate Mail, from which we take my namesake:
People write letters to strangers, and the letters get given away to strangers, to see if they arrive. The addresses are not street addresses, but 'affiliative' addresses, such as:

deadletter
via Zoo Bomb,
A Portland Bike Activity
Write about: Fun things to do in your city!


or

Dead Letter
They make things at
Watershed, PDX
A Portland Industrial Building
Write about: Projects people are making!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
He's great at tools, she's great at sports. He's great at ambiguity, she's great at plans. He's great at new people, she's great at ongoing relationships. He's great at eating, she's great at cooking...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Story of B (Daniel Quinn),
System of the World (Neal Stephenson),
God Emperor of Dune (Frank Herbert),
The Time Traveler's Wife
The Earthsea Trilogy (Ursula K Lequin)
Don't Think of an Elephant! (George Fuckoff)
The Handbook of Social Tampering

Schizopolis
Monsoon Wedding
Today's Special
Morning Glory

The Long Winters
Deadmau5
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Envelopes.
A Good Fucking Pen. As in, a fucking uni-ball® Vision™ Rollerball Pens, Fine Point, Black, Dozen. A sharpie will do better than some shit-fucked bic. A bic will do.
Patches/Stickers/Swag -
Embrace-All-Information-Flow Attitude -
A project
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Metaphors for group problem solving. The emergence of frames from an exploratory discourse. Art to build next, and the counterplay between art for personal indulgence and art to advance shared projecting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1) Sometimes deadletter, as a project, is at someone's show, so I'm there soliciting letters or putting people on envelopes.
2) About 50% of the time I'm in the shop building things with a group of makers.
3) On a personal expedition to meet new people, find new projects, taking only the pile of envelopes in my back pocket and a few patches.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think kombucha is GROSS.

Oh, and I eat my butter side down.

New update: I'm not really a makeup fan, I'll think you're way hotter on a date au natural.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you'd like to write letters to other people. If you want to help me spraypaint envelopes. If you want to sit at a table and listen to people talk about their hopes and dreams and write letters to strangers. If you want to carry mail to far lands. If you want to get breakfast or lunch.

If you're interested in bringing yourself or you and your partner to meet up and see where it goes...