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52 • San Ramon, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 43–51
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 12:18pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.81m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has dogs and likes cats
So about me, hmm well I'm told that I'm fairly easy going, confident and respectful. I think most would also say that I'm fun to be around and make the most out of any situation and try to make it fun no matter what it is I'm doing. I've worked hard to get where I am in my career and enjoy what I do.
As for fun, I'm pretty open to most things and if I haven't tried it already, then it's more than likely I'm up for the opportunity, especially if you are....:-)
As for health and well being, I belong to a fitness club and work out often, because I enjoy it, not because I have to..:-) I try to eat right, I enjoy cooking, have no food allergies and eat what I want within reason and moderation. I'm spiritual, because it's good for my soul and makes me a better person.
As for you, I am hoping you hold the same values as I do and are fit and take care of yourself. I want you to be as playful, easy going, forgiving and understanding as I am and definitely not into "cat and mouse" game and hopefully we've all moved on from our past ;-) ( your pics and age should be true as well, since honesty is a really good place to start )
As for us, let's try it the old fashioned way... Boy meets girl, Girl and boy like each other, a few dates take place, Boy and girl still enjoy each other's company, then more dates take place and who knows what can happen from there..:-)
As for pictures, as a single guy I find it tough to collect good pics of me, but my 16 yr old daughter helps me out from time to time, so I hope you like them.. I do want to say, I have no idea what all this talk is about with guys and pics from their bathrooms with no shirt on and honestly I don't want to know more :-)
It's not me, so let's leave it at that... I'm not a "player" whatever that is..? I would love to fall in love with the right person :-)
I'm open to texting, if that works for you, but I'd prefer minimal texts, then maybe talk on the phone and see if we'd both still like to meet each other and see where it goes from there... Does that sound good?
Thanks for checking me out and I'm very open to conversation so just drop me a note..
Hope to see you soon. Let's make dating fun, be true to ourselves and please NO games or extended Questionnaires ;-) just good healthy fun and if the chemistry is there ( and I hope it is!!) then let's see where it takes us from there..
Living, loving and friendship
Having fun with whatever comes my way
Being there for my friends
Positive attitude and fun to be around
Being helpful to others
My knowledge about everyday "stuff"
Big Bang theory
Best friends and family
Love with the right person
To be cont-
Being a better me..
Being a better dad
You are attractive on the inside and outside
You love to laugh and not into drama
You're willing to leave your baggage behind
You like piña coladas ( just kidding, but you know the song )
You're not too old or too young.. You're just right
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