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deanbird

41 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:44am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I know who I am and what I want, most of the time. Confidence is something I have gained through humility, not the arrogance I had when I was younger. I'm a teacher, I'm a learner. I genuinely like people and things and the silent narratives of places.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a musician, producer, composer and teacher, making an earnest attempt at authenticity - deeply flawed - trying to be better everyday.
I’m really good at
Listening, talking (not always in that order). Seeing the big picture and being in the present. I feel it's important that I point out what I'm not so good at here... I'm not so good at the past or the future. I am goal oriented and I'm ambitious but I don't tend to fixate or worry about the future. As for the past, I like where it is, I'm not bothered by it either. I like where I've been for the most part and I like where I think I'm going, but largely I enjoy where I am, now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am emotionally open, easy going and good to be around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1Q84 and really all of murakami's novels, Vonnegut, Cody Chestnut, Rodriguez, 60s Thai pop, Marvin Gay, Michael Kiwanuka, Bukowski, Andersons (both Wes and PT). Fancy chefs at little restaurants and cooking at home. This is the very short, very random list.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, The Beatles, my ears, art, laughter and loss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cleaning up my garden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing music at home with friends, or on stage, at the movies, making dinner or out to dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Look what I wrote, isn't that adorable?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating