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30 Denver, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:10am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Looking for my forever partner. For practical reasons, I tend to be most compatible with guys who are similarly well-adjusted, well-established financially and emotionally, who have things figured out for the most part and are not still "searching" for who they are or what they want. He probably has a good professional career or owns a successful venture, probably has a good college education, and probably chose to buy a house in the downturn that he can gradually adjust to his tastes, or maybe prefers the convenience of renting a nice quiet apartment.

I am confident, tenacious and somewhat stubborn, decisive on major decisions that matter but can be indecisive on more minor things. I think I am friendly and caring but fairly introverted, intelligent and educated, mature for my age, honest, loving, and have a good career. I have an old house and an old cat. Both are currently central to my life. I also love dogs but my current cat does not, and I occasionally travel for work, so for those reasons I do not currently have a dog, but I love doggie sitting. I know exactly who I am and what I want in a man. I am a homebody - I have to force myself to "go out" and socialize in groups, and usually not more than once a week, and even then I prefer to be in bed by 9 or 10. I'm happy just doing my own thing usually, although I much prefer to be doing almost anything with somebody special. I would consider myself pretty "boring" for my age and it would help if you are similar or compatible in that way, or at least if you understand what I mean when I say that. I love finer food and I like to cook so it would be great to find a partner who does too.

I am family oriented (though do not desire kids) and am looking to settle down and find somebody to come home to. In a partner, I look for a sweet, intelligent, mostly introverted, nerdy but professional, athletic/healthy, down to earth, similarly established guy who knows who he is, who wants to spend a lot of time together as DINKS, maybe playing house in Stapleton, maybe someday running a homestead far from town; running errands, and exploring together. I love Colorado, home cooked gourmet food, animals, gardening, road trips, and I often have a weakness for pale skin. I generally go for platinum/blonde and blue (bonus points for Scandinavians), or for brunettes with seductive deep set eyes and thick eyebrows, and sometimes go for gingers, and I have a huge thing for runners and cyclists... guys who are more trim/slender than me - I am considered a "cub" I guess. Fair warning, I have a greater than average sex drive. Other details along those lines are found in the "questions" section.
What I’m doing with my life
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My career is on the business/management side of software. I also enjoy gardening, walking, eating out, camping, and bargain Shopping.
I’m really good at
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Fixing things. and improvising. Thinking outside the box. I am industrious. Seeing the forest through the trees.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a little restless; I find it hard to sit still - I'm always starting new projects or looking for something to do. I am easily annoyed by the unnecessary, mundane, or rote.

I usually go to bed at 9 or 10 and sleep 7-8 hours. I am an early bird and definitely not a night owl.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book - Tao The Ching; motivational books
Movie - Documentaries that teach me something
Show - Star Trek Next Generation; Keeping Up Appearances
Music - Owl City, Fun, 80's
Food - Indian, French, German, Cajun, seafood, oysters, filet mignon, sushi,
You should message me if
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You think we may be a good match and want to meet and see if we have chemistry, and you are interested in meeting offline, and you are geared toward a long-term or even life-long relationship.