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61 Brecksville, OH Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53-63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:59pm
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Post hoc ergo propter hoc! Therefore, I'm here! Fact or I am. I live in a southern suburb of Cleveland, OH and have 2 adult children. I work at a police department and each day is a new experience. (I'm not a police officer--admin in Chief's office)

I enjoy communicating with others, listening to music, walking my dog Baxter, and going on long boat rides (or car rides) to explore new places. I like to go out and enjoy just about anything from a bike ride to a comedy club, theater, dancing, movie, coffee, dinner, walk. There is nothing like traveling and I'm happy this year I start accruing four weeks off! Been to several locations in the nation, but my dream is Italy. Love beaches, water, a breeze, and meaningful conversation!

I am currently on a quest to become more fit and exercise 3 to 4 times a week. Eating healthy is very important and I enjoy experimenting with new recipes. I love to cook when there is time to get into it! Of course a glass of wine and company makes it even better.

I enjoy sports--especially baseball, but I'm not a man and I'd rather read while someone I care for is watching sports on television (just to be close). However, if exciting, I'm watching. If in at a game...I'm in the moment. I enjoy attending concerts and theater shows. Day trips are fun--believe it or not Pittsburgh is a fun city! (I know...the Steelers...blah blah blah). Like football, but gotta tell you it's cold downtown during the games.

I am loving, determined, independent and I give more than I take; however, I know when I'm being taken advantage of.

I have two adult children a married daughter 32 and a son 26 who lives with me. I enjoiy spending time with them and would be glad to share my fam and extended fam with someone special.

If there is anything else you would like to know, simply ask, I believe in truth and full diclosure!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, spending time with friends and family, pursuing interests...aging as I speak LOL, but I actually feel young. The body changes but the mind still remains young!!! I'M LIVING! I enjoy traveling and seeking new adventures. Like communicating with interesting individuals and learning about topics that intrigue me. (I will never stop learning,) Presently, functional medicine is a topic that interests me. Our medical system is so messed up, but that a discussion for a different time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, giving massages, caring for others, pulling events together, computer applications, business communication, prioritizing responsibilites, kissing, listening and I have a unique intuition. However, I don't always share my intuition with people unless I know them well. I could sometimes feel and know what others are feeling when talking to them. It's a vibe thing, but I'm very aware of it. We all have that ability, just have to be opened to it! My interests and what I'm good at are very diverse and as mentioned above, I'd be happy to share more if we meet!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile (I've been told, but never actually took a survey.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Forensic, "who done it" type of fiction books
Health, vitality type of self-help books
I enjoy drama, comedy and sometimes horror movies (have to be in mood and not going home alone)
My favorite food is Mexican, and Italian
I'm not a slave to any television show on TV right now. In fact, I'd rather read and be out and about. I watch what I want to when I feel like it. Like Animal shows and house makeovers, style makeovers, Discovery Channel (loved shark week--yeah, I know, weird), news and late shows at times.
I like all kinds of music except twangy country western and enjoy dancing. Like a variety of music...into Christina pPerri, rhianna, Sara Barieles, john legend, mraz, urban, and some rock n roll, but loving whats out now (well most of it). And lets not forget the rock and roll oldies. Still near and dear to my heart. The Stones, Beatles, Chicago, Three Dog Night, Led Zeplin, and on and on. We are living surrounded by talent and art.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mindfulness (in the moment)
Knowledge and exploration
Communication (that means listenting too) and quiet
Exercise and Nourishment
Love -- family, friends and just one special person
Nature, water, earth, air, and the beauty of it all
Nonconforming for the sake of conforming (that's why there are 8)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to attain balance in life while juggling responsibilities and necessary tasks to include the joy of sheer FUN!!! Anticipating what is next and hopeful for someone to enter my life that is accepting, flexible, understanding, honest, and would focus on enhancing life rather than controlling it. In this world we only have power over ourselves. Above all happiness and what I could do next to achieve even more. I thrive on it. LIfe is not to live, come home, and work--life is to relished find the beauity and positiveness in everything we do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It changes weekly...just depends on the moment!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Okay....I use an oven bag to cook my Thanksgiving turkey so I do not have to baste. Really? That's funny, like I would mention it here for everyone to read!
You should message me if
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You are an honest, sincere, caring, fun loving person who is not afraid of a growth and change. A mature person that has evolved and knows right from wrong, that's a plus. For visitors who keep on looking but don't message, what are you doing? Take a leap and message me, if I'm interested I'll message back, wait too long and I'll assume you really are not interested, just looking and one day "blocked." Does that sound mean? I'm soory. Life is too short and that's a peeve of mine. I don't take this too personally or seriously. It's not life or death. It's a matter of meeting and maybe a connection. And for the 20 somethings that write and try to convince me that we may have commonalities...Im flattered, but I'm not Mrs. Robinson! (although you won't know who that is.) On the flip side if you are older than 63 or even an old 60...don't bother as my life will tire you out. I dont like to sit around much...not in my personality. But, cunoodling and watching a movie...that's nice! Good luck with your dating endeavors and be happy!