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decadentdadnyc

51 / M / straight / Single

Flushing, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Playful, Creative, and Compassionate.

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My Self-Summary

Single Dad

Teacher - New career

also a Songwriter

Sweet Smart Fun

Playful but not a player....big difference....

Love: Music, Art, Film, Books, Travel, Family, etc ...

Adore intimacy, intelligence, creativity, artistry.

Believe in True Love, yep....a hopeless romantic. Simple guy but a range of interests.

Seeking someone really special.

I believe in wearing your heart on your sleeve.

I believe it's important to be good to children, grandparents and animals.

I believe in the power of love.

I believe in justice/tolerance.

I believe good things happen eventually to good people.

What I’m doing with my life

A single Dad - bringing up two great kids. Get along with ex.

Love teaching. Love songwriting.

Daydream about designing and building my own home.

I work really hard....

I love being creative...

I’m really good at

Being a Dad

Writing and performing Music

Making people laugh

Romance

Massage

Cooking

Writing

Kissing

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile

My eyes

My fingers

My voice

My heart

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Roxy Music, Talking Heads, Beatles, Stones, The Who, Reggae, Jazz, Classical, Blues, Tchaikovsky and Mozart, Jeff beck, Santana, Black Eyed Peas, Bowie. I really love all kinds of music.

A voracious reader. All genres of books.Enjoy crime novels, sci fi and fantasy novels, historical fiction, biographies and south american women authors.

Love gourmet food and comfort food, good wine. I'm a great cook.

Enjoy comedies, romance, chick flicks, epics, action, Disney, just hate some of the mindless crap that comes out of Hollywood.

The six things I could never do without

6? I have 60...

My kids

Kissing

Spooning/Cuddling

Fireplaces

Music

Water as in beach/pool

Books

Massage

Laughter

A child's smile

Peanut butter and jelly sandwich

Warm bath with oils and salts

Hot shower

Thunder and lightening...makes me sleep like a baby...

the sound of the sea shore

lying in the grass and daydreaming

hand holding

window shopping

Yankees

ice cream

silk

clean sheets

pillows

hearts

valentines day

justice

compassion

clean water and a clean earth

a woman who adores lingerie, corsets, her man

oh well not quite to 60 yet...ill add some later

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Justice Injustice

Poverty

Racism

Children's education

Music

Smiles

Passion

Romance

Trust

True love

Lust

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing with my kids, having a family dinner

Perhaps working on lesson plans

Cleaning

Out with friends laughing, having some wine....complaining about the world....

Thinking about meeting you....and having a perfect Friday night date

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmmmm......

That I am a hopeless romantic... yet also creative..

Much more I will confide in as I get to know you...

You should message me if

You seek friendship

Are honest

Smart

Creative

Elegant

Decadent

Enjoy life

Want an epic mutual seduction

Enjoy intelligence

Enjoy culture

If you seek true love

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