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decadentwest

34 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Artist at heart, Media Maker, Traveler, Storyteller.

Lover of good design / aesthetics in all things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spent the last 18 months of my life traveling around the world talking about my passions and ideas with other creative people. It was glamorous, wore me out, and I'm grateful to be closing down that phase of my life.

I am now resettled back in SF, strengthening my relationships and building community while I focus on the next step in my ever evolving career path.

Before that I made some games, was a teacher, founded a studio, closed same studio, and designed a beautiful interactive graphic novel on Iranian oil politics and the CIA.

I like spending my weekends outside, in the mountains or away at hotsprings. I'm a social animal and like to do most things with other people. Be warned, if we get along I may just try to enlist you for an adventure on one or more of the following:

New skills : rock climbing, meditation, mountain biking, yoga
Old skills : ski / snowboard, scuba, backpacking, raft guiding
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Explaining things, especially when armed with a laptop and projector
- Picking people up when I hug them hello
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. You'll see.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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If you recognize some of these, I'd say the chance we would get along increases exponentially:

Writers / Directors - Wes Anderson, Cohen Brothers, Luc Besson, Joss Whedon, JJ Abrams, Michel Gondry, Chris Nolan....

Authors - Chuck Pahlaniuk, Clay Shirky, Jonah Lehrer, Jeff Lemire, Malcolm Gladwell, Craig Thompson, Brian K Vaughn...

Mainstream TV shows everybody watches, like Homeland, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Archer, Stewart / Colbert...

Various Graphic Novels you probably don't know, like - Jar of Fools, DayTripper, Asterious Polyp, Underwater Welder, Saga...

Animated films like The Secret of Kells and Tekkonkinkreet or shorts like Thought of You, and Paperman....

Music - I've been going through Pitchfork and adding their album of the year collections to Spotify. Just discovered Hot Chip. I'm open to all sorts of music, but mostly listen to Hip Hop and Electronic stuff.

Radio - This American Life, NPR, Radio Lab

Food - I started cooking my food on a block of himalayan salt. Sounds weird, makes everything amazing. Lately I've been avoiding Sugar and Wheat and lately all my friends are having birthdays with cake and icecream :/ Also : Bourbon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- meaningful work
- exercise
- intimacy
- a hot tub full of salt water after a hard day
- coconut water
- a computer with creative tools and an internet connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to survive the zombie apocalypse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably sitting on my couch, sipping bourbon and listening to ye olde hi fi, or getting into trouble somewhere in my neighborhood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a solid 6 on the enneagrams. I'll leave it at that for now.
You should message me if
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I'm always down to meet new + interesting people. At this point in my life, I'm looking more for something long term and serious, but that certainly doesn't mean we can't have fun in the short term. Things have to start somewhere.

Also, I don't tend to reach out much on okc. If you're interested, drop me a line :)