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decoupled

35 San Mateo, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am slowing down
As the years go by
I am sinking

So I trick myself
Like everybody else

The secrets I hide
Twist me inside
They make me weaker

So I trick myself
Like everybody else

I crouch in fear and wait
I'll never feel again

If only I could, remember
Anything at all

- the cure

(I'm not this emo, it's just a good song)
What I’m doing with my life
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Disturbing myself browsing potential matches on okcupid like objects stocked on shelves. Somewhere in there I'm working at a great SF-based tech startup and eating copious amounts of organic produce and the occasional rare/raw flesh.

Living single has become quite wonderful for me the last few years, I'm not particularly motivated or eager to jump into anything serious currently. Kind of more interested in finding someone compatible and fun for dinner dates, hiking/camping trips, and maybe the occasional cuddling up in front of a movie. Maybe that leads to more, it certainly isn't a priority.
I’m really good at
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Seeing through the b.s. we're continuously surrounded by and applying to my life what's learned in the process accordingly.

Lots of things... except apparently populating this profile with a bunch of details we'd have more fun discovering in person. Aren't the q&a stats and pics enough to know if it'll be a waste of time?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Snuggled up in my sleeping bag sleeping on the ground like the tree hugging hippy I never expected to become.
You should message me if
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You've answered enough of the okcupid questions for our match statistics to be meaningful. I don't require a certain match %, but prefer we be informed of what we're signing up for.

You're intelligent, non-religious, and find it disappointing the redundancy here is necessary.

You're physically well; not necessarily seeking an athlete, but a woman who takes care of herself. Can you do a hand-stand against the wall? I'd like to do drunken, giggly hand-stands with you between games of scrabble!

You would like to go walk/hike/backpack/camp somewhere pretty, possibly under the influence of psychadelics.

The idea of reading aloud chapters from our current books to each other in a tent on a beach is appealing.

You would enjoy playing in a kitchen with me making elaborate, tasty, entertaining meals.

You're caring, honest, intelligent, and expect the same.

You won't feel the need to demonstrate compassion upon learning I lived without electricity for a year - it was voluntary and most excellent, how else was I going to put a dent in my stockpile of unread books?

You're not nor do you aspire to be a Google or Facebook employee.

You have a life and passionate interests of your own and don't entirely define your life and happiness through your relationship with your partner.

You're not on some kind of desperate mission to find a husband to father your future children, do.not.want.

Still with me? Send a message, I will reply. I'm quite laid back and a great person to have on your team, this profile is intentionally direct and semi-hostile to try mitigate wasting our collective time.

Unlike so many of the profiles I encounter, one word effortless messages are just fine and dandy; I don't have some unrealistic expectation of strangers investing significant time and energy sending messages to dozens of probable response-less black holes. After we've gone through the pulse-checking correspondence cycle however... expectations emerge.

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