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deeforbee

41 Tucson, AZ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Job
Politics / Government
Status
Married
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A little bit about me. (Okay, this may turn into a lotta-bit. Lets see where it goes.)

Edt: Okay, some of this sounds a bit harsh. I'm trying to soften it up a bit.

I'm married. Lets get that out the way. I'm not really looking for sex. Sex is fun and nice and I'm horny a good part of the time, but really, I'm just looking for someone to converse and hang out. (There was another sentence here, but I cut it for this parenthetical statement. It was too harsh. See? I'm trying.)

When it comes to hanging out, though, it's a bit involved for me. I work nights, and my schedule, while regular to me, will seem irregular to you. So, yes, I have to jump through a couple of hoops to hang out. However, if you're willing, I'm willing.

I'm a flirt. Sometimes I take that to extremes. I like to turn women on. I'm pretty good with words. Aside from being a comic book editor and writer, I also write short stories--mainly erotica, lately.

I like to believe I'm witty. At least intelligent enough to carry on a conversation and have some laughter there, as well. A bit of a smart-ass, and because I listened to a lot of music and seen a lot of movies, I can probably related things said to a song lyric or movie line. Since this can be as annoying as it sounds, I generally keep these to myself.

I believe in honesty. Don't ask me a question you don't want to know the answer to, just as I don't ask a question that I don't want to know the answer to. Some people can't handle the truth. Since few truths are absolute (much of what we think of as truth is nothing more than our personal bias), I will give you my version of it when asked. I'm not going to sugar coat it. A "do these pants make me look fat" will elicit the correct response. (Yes, I'm black, so I like a nice derrière.) Dont get upset because you didn't get the answer you expected. Truth. You've been advised. (Yeah, that's a bit harsh, but there's no way to really soften this one. Sorry. But at least you know, right?)

I'm an open book. Just ask away.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working. I go to work every night for money, which I guess makes me a whore. But my passion is writing and editing comics, which is also a lot of work, or writing a column or two. I'm always working on something. While my mind may wander some during a conversation, it hasn't gone far, I promise. I've more than likely heard every word.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flirting. Thinking things that would get me slapped if said aloud. I've got a dirty mind.

Editing. You have no idea the work it takes to birth a viable comic.

Eating. Because food.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got no idea. Why don't you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything by Roger Zelazny, Brian Lumley, or Neal Stephenson. Don't have as much time to read as I'd like, since I'm either working or working. But I try to read The Amber Chronicles once a year. Sci-fi, fantasy, and horror. That's me!

Edit: I've been listening to a lot of audiobooks lately. Graphic Audio, which does full-cast productions, as well as music and sound effects. "A Movie In Your Mind", indeed!

Movies: any b/w horror, sci-fi, or thriller. Horror will always be my first choice, followed by action, followed by romantic comedies. No, I'm not going to do a list. It would be too long, varied, and boring.

TV: I don't watch a lot of it. Too busy working. This is why we have Netflix! There is a lot of stuff in my queue. Yes, even cartoons. Comic books, remember?

Edit: okay, aside from he obvious sci-fi stuff, we've got Scandal, Grey's Anatomy, Bones, OITNB, and a few others. No Walking Dead. I'm tired of zombies. Blame comics!

Music: Finally, something of a list! Prince. Long list, right? Anyway, I'm a lover of old school rap, r&b, classic soul, classic rock, and some easy listening. I also like New Age. I like some country, but not much. Not much reggae, either.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPhone
The Internet
Prince music
The Great Book of Amber
My laptop
Movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next story. Writing is difficult.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing. Or reading. Or watching a bad horror movie. Or working. Or all of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book. Ask a specific question, you'll get a specific answer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anything here strikes you as interesting. Or if you want to teach me how to play an instrument. I'm interested in learning the saxophone, the piano, and the guitar. I guess I'm not busy enough.