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63 M Boulder, CO

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
The center of my personal and work life is a deep and direct connection to the Infinite Presence (or whatever you call that). I don't want that to sound pretentious, because I treat it as a gift the Universe lovingly gave to me (because I so badly needed it). It's been deepening since I was 18. I have no connection with any organized spiritual or religious groups. Just very deep and personal. I know inner stillness and quiet, and am also very active, social and very productive on the external level.

While that first paragraph may initially sound “woo-woo,” please don’t jump to conclusions. My path is to bring this awareness into my body, down to earth, into everyday life, into my work and service to humanity (as described in the next section, “What am I doing with my life”). I don’t like how many spiritual paths emphasize going off into “other dimensions.” No—we need this right here.

I am as fully embodied as I can be. For me, deeper and deeper embodiment is one of the primary paths in this life. Bringing the awareness of the unseen dimensions fully into my body and manifesting it in my daily actions and interactions. My work/service is a large and meaningful part of my life.

Another important part of my path is being with what is as it is, not through my beliefs and the stories I tell myself.

I find it very easy to be in relationship, to communicate truthfully – even in the midst of difficulty. To feel joy and to feel all feelings. To support my Beloved in being all she can be.

I would love for you to be deeply connected with Source, know inner quiet and stillness, and also be outgoing. I would love for you to be communicative, financially stable, physically-emotionally-spiritually healthy, playful, passionate, sensual, creative, grounded, independent, yet love to merge, have some fire, love dancing and be monogamous.

I'm very pleased to say I have never cheated in a relationship in my entire life. I know conscious, trusting relationship and want to be with someone who also knows. I love communicating truth in the boundless present and am very attentive to my partner. My strength and groundedness can help you be in your deep feminine—and I also want you to be in your strength.

My idea of good relationship is guided by David Deida’s, “The Way of the Superior Man.”

Thought decades of internal navigation, I am deeply committed to cleaning up my Shadow as much as possible. I'm delighted with the progress over these years.

While I'm comfortable down to my inner core, I am also very outgoing, and really love organizing joyous group activities.

I play piano and sing - publicly - in a way that is soulful and tasteful, yet simple. People love it and I love it.

One of my passions is Contact Improv movement. It is very intimate without having to be sexual, it entices me through my limitations and into deep, flowing connections with others and with life. I also love ecstatic free-form dancing and partner dancing.

I love merging with nature. Love to hike, backpack and snowshoe.

I love to laugh and people tell me I’m fun and funny.

I have two grown (out of the house) daughters with whom I have a deep and loving and honest relationship.

I have a wonderful small house by a lake. My house wraps around me like a comfy blanket.

I’m not attached to this, yet I would really like to connect with my Mate for the rest of my life.

Inside me, I feel and act like I'm 45, enjoy the 8-year-old inside me, and many of my friends are in their 30s. And my real self is timeless.
What I’m doing with my life
Breathing, feeling, deeply resting in the Source, dancing, singing, playing piano, laughing, hiking, loving nature, loving my two cats.

In the work world, I've developed a revolutionary, simple, highly-effective medication-free method for resolving insomnia. This has a positive effect on almost every area of a person's life. And there are millions of people who have trouble sleeping. In addition to working with clients, I've created a recorded method, so people can easily learn this method at home. The method has been proven highly effective in an independent study. This is about to be marketed nationally and internationally. I feel like life is about to allow me be of huge service to improve the quality of life of much of humanity. Head bowed, with smile of gratitude on my face.
I’m really good at
Loving, communicating, listening, being deeply still, having fun, being funny, being truthful, being adventurous and often wild.
The first things people usually notice about me
The mischievous twinkle in my eye and smile, and my willingness to be open, friendly and loving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Miles Davis (especially his first three electric years), Mozart (especially his piano concertos), Milton Nascimento.

Singing In The Rain, Dangerous Beauty, The Arranged, Love Actually, The Hustler.
The six things I could never do without
Loving my breath and heart
My cottage by the lake
What is
Life's fullness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The fullness of stillness and silence.

My mind-body integration work.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Life has been very challenging for years (very willing to talk about that when we do). I'm now out of the birth canal and am really celebrating!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–57
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're interested in talking and possibly meeting.

You want deep and meaningful relationship.