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deepjoy231

63 M Boulder, CO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47–57
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Although I love to express myself poetically, in this first paragraph I am going to be straightforward and offer a list of qualities I bring to relationship, which are the same qualities I seek in my Beloved: A deep connection with Source (by whatever name you call that Presence), receive Guidance from Source, a Deep Passion for merging into the Infinite Ocean of Love, wise, know inner stillness and quiet, yet very active, outgoing, social, productive on the external level, deeply embodied, grounded, the importance of bringing inspiration and guidance all down to earth, not “woo-woo,” openhearted, deeply loving, gentle, caring, considerate, attentive to partner, monogamous, deeply grateful, strong, adventurous, spontaneous, aliveness, irreverent, playful, fun, funny, sometimes outrageous, have some fire and wildness, joyous, creative, passionate, sensual, love touch, very easy to communicate truthfully - even in the midst of difficulty, know conscious, trusting relationship, very easy to be in relationship, deep listener, independent yet love to merge, be fully in our strengths and willing to also be vulnerable, have cleaned up a lot of inner shadow, emotionally stable, able to feel joy, sorrow and all feelings, financially stable, love dancing - both ecstatic and partner dancing, love merging with nature hiking, backpacking and more, able to be with what is with minimal stories about what is, a Deep Passion for merging into the Infinite Ocean of Love (yes, I deliberately said that a second time), to support each other in being all we can be, serving to make the world a better place, good musical taste - which I know is subjective so we will explore that together.

While the above paragraph lists qualities in me that are the same qualities I seek in my Beloved, here is some more about me: I’ve been on a deep spiritual journey since I was 18. I have no connection with any organized spiritual or religious groups - just a very deep and personal connection with Source. My work is I’ve developed a highly-effective medication-free method to resolve sleep difficulties. We are beginning to serve many people, and hope to serve humanity. I feel grateful to be of service. My strength and groundedness can help you be in your deep feminine. I'm very pleased to say I have never cheated in a relationship in my entire life. My idea of good relationship is related David Deida’s teachings. I play piano and sing - publicly - in a way that is soulful and tasteful, yet simple. People love it and I love it. One of my passions is Contact Improv movement. It is very intimate without having to be sexual, it entices me through my limitations and into deep, flowing connections with others and with life. I also love ecstatic free-form dancing and partner dancing. I have two grown (out of the house) daughters with whom I have a deep and loving and honest relationship. I have a wonderful small house by Wonderland Lake. My house wraps around me like a comfy blanket. Inside me, I feel and act like I'm 45, enjoy the 8-year-old inside me, and many of my friends are in their 30s. And my real self is timeless. I have two loving cats, so it would be desirable, although not necessary, that you don’t have pets and are open to loving cats. I’m not attached to it, yet I would really like to connect with my Beloved for the rest of our lives.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Answered in previous paragraph.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Loving, communicating, listening, being deeply still, having fun, being funny, being truthful, being adventurous and often wild.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The mischievous twinkle in my eye and smile, and my willingness to be open, friendly and loving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Miles Davis (especially his first three electric years), Mozart (especially his piano concertos), Milton Nascimento (Brazilian).

Singing In The Rain, Dangerous Beauty, The Arranged, Love Actually, The Hustler.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Loving my breath and heart
Friends
My cottage by the lake
What is
Life's fullness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fullness of stillness and silence.

My mind-body integration work.

Gratitude
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Life has been very challenging for years (very willing to talk about that when we do). I'm now out of the birth canal and am really celebrating!
You should message me if
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You want deep and meaningful relationship.

You're interested in talking and possibly meeting.