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51 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:05pm
Black, Native American, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well.. let's see. I am interested in living well, real love, laughter and play, culture, mountains, the sea, good food, physical and mental chemistry, authentic listening, and the courage to be truly intimate. I love my family and friends and like to spend time with them in the back yard or in nature, though I love the city too. I am in awe of many little things and appreciate this incredible planet we live on. I teach yoga and am very inerested in Spiritual Inquiry. I like sharing simple moments with people close to me, making music and singing.
What I’m doing with my life
I am raising my two boys ages 7 and 10 and getting used to completely supporting my self after being mostly a mom and yoga teacher. Though I have taught yoga classes and retreats for over 10 years and I am a Wellness Consultant and work for myself. I love working with people to help them heal them selves. I love to walk on Mount Tabor, Oaks Bottom Park or many other beautiful spots around town when ever I get a moment during my day or go swimming at the gym when I can. Been loving doing my yoga practice out side on my (private) front yard. I also love hiking around the area and would like to exploring new places. I have an off and on meditation practice which I am getting more steady with now, after how many years!
I LOVE the ocean, mountains and beautiful places. Like I said above, spending time with friends, kids, eating yummy food, learning how to be a better cook. I love good wine, though don't like to get drunk! It's just feels bad! I like to make sense when I speak... or at least that's my intention, ha!
I took about 10 years away from writing songs and performing... hmm... my oldest boy is ten too... I had a band and did some recording and am excited to be getting back into it. Got my self a SWEET guitar for my 50th!
This summer I am hoping to working on my house. I love to garden (though I'm a novice..), and just "futts" around when I have the time. And while doing all this I also want to SLOW DOWN. Wish me luck.
I’m really good at
Being Kind. Singing. Being Silly. Dancing. Loving. Swimming. Creating Music. Being Brave. Laughing. Watching the trees wave. Hugging. Snuggling. Caring. Listening. Seeing Beauty.
The first things people usually notice about me
Strange question to ask someone who isn't the person who is doing the noticing ....
I'm tall? I'm generally not ugly? I have freckles? I am nice? I guess you'd really have to ask them, wouldn't you?! I look like Angela Davis?!
Not really, but you'd be surprised what people have said.... maybe it's the dread locks? I wish I was that amazing!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS - Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingslover, The Great work of your Life by Stephen Cope, The Bhagavad Gita, Let The Great World Spin by Colum McCann (can't wait to read his new one!), Wanna read Waldon by Thoreau. MUSIC - SO many kinds! - YoYo Ma, PJ Harvey, Joni Mitchell, Micheal Franti, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Real Jazz( Monk, Coltrane, Cannon Ball) Classical, Johnny Cash, Classical Indian, Jose Gonzalez!, Egerto Gismonte!(beautiful Brazilian), Crosby Still Nash and Young, Martin Medeski and Wood and it goes on... MOVIES - American Beauty, Moonrise Kingdom!, Pina!! (twice at the living room theater in 3D, amazing!) and many more (love movies!) Shows - (TV?) Don't watch too much. But have seen Downton Abbey! Love it!!, OPB shows, The Office. RADIO! NPR - This American Life, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me!, The Moth etc...and KBOO, KMHD. Want to see more Live Theater, Dance and Comedy or Improve! FOOD - Thai, Sushi (Japanese), Indian, French.. anything good! Veggie, Meat, Fish etc.
The six things I could never do without
Breathing. Laughter. Sunshine. Sleep. My Children.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The small stuff ya know.... Existence, impermanence, what love is, romance, Who Am I. And the Big stuff - how to take care of my self and my family, all the things I have to do and how to possibly do less!
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out to movies, visiting with friends, staying home & taking a bath and reading a good book and trying my best to get to bed early! (and I'm serious this is exciting to me) But if I'm feeling the need I might go dancing. I like to check out music and theater etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll have to think on this some more... So much to choose from! Well...
I like to watch Desperate House wives and fold laundry. How's that?!
That's all I got right now.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Ok since you asked heres a're really handsome but don't know it, successful and love what you do, funny, sweet, brave, honest, smart but not stupid, educated and casual, love kids and even wild boys, are affectionate, like strong and vulnerable women, you're solid like the earth but flow like water. Sophisticated (not haughty) and rugged. Can keep a beat and carry a tune ...or at least really close! You're compassionate, kind and like the truth, patient and shed tears. Oh and you are looking for an authentic connection and a real friend in every way. Yeah, that sounds really good!