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Last online
Today – 1:15pm
Open relationship
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6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has dogs and Has cats
English, French (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Tall, witty, bookish creative director and wanderer. PhD in French/African literatures, which I'm putting to very good use as a creative director. Well-traveled and appropriately cynical. Think they're making up things we've all heard before. Edgy yet warm. A laughnik full of agitprop, pepper and spasms of poetry. It only gets better from there. Whee.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make sure it's careening around in an appropriately unpredictable and surprising way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. Wit. Work. Wok.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Baudelaire, Cocteau, Apollinaire, Genet, Cummings, Verlaine, Rimbaud, Proust, Gide, Wilde, Capote, Miller, Woolf, Djuna Barnes, Houellebecq, Beckett, Kourouma, Diabaté, Bukowski, Amis, O'Connor, Flaubert, Kafka, Jarry, Breton, Süskind, Kerouac, Burroughs, Ballard, Lovecraft, Poe, Burgess, Edward Gorey, Nin, Rabelais, Clarke, Grillet, Duras, Calvin and Hobbes... I think you get the idea.


Cash, Clash, VU/Lou Reed, Bowie, Tapes n' Tapes, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, Interpol, aMiniature, Spoon, Wilco, Kristeen Young, Smiths, Neil Young, Placebo, the motherfucking Beatles, Nirvana, Kate Bush, Steel Pulse, Grace Jones, Bach, Debussy, Bartok, Talking Heads, XTC, Kate Bush, Joy Division, Kills, Gang of Four, Billie Holiday, Edith Piaf, Les Rita Mitsouko, Leonard Cohen, Warren Zevon, Sonic Youth, Arcade Fire, Neko Case, Niko, fucking Boston!, The Lonesome Organist, New Order, Wesley Willis, Ambulance LTD, Replacements, Okkervil River, Pixies, Queen, Jayhawks, Loretta Lynn, Sex Pistols, Ramones, Tom Tom Club, Roxy Music, Kinks, Andrew Bird, Erik Satie, Beethoven, Rachmaninoff, Britten... And etc.


Lean, Hitchcock, Pakula, Scorsese, Truffaut, Waters... Oh this is silly. I like films high- and low-brow. They just have to be good. And you know what I mean.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Highway 1
Mechanical pencil
Squid the cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The odd and the obscure. The superiority of animals. The unpolitical world. Kind strangers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At TGIFs, of course. Or the opera. Or a dive bar. Or church. Or King Spa!